Meet the Remarkable Toddler Who Went Viral for That Michelle Obama Portrait Pic

Blogger and stay-at-home mom Jessica Curry of Washington, D.C. didn’t expect her life to change when she took her two young daughters and a friend to the National Portrait Gallery in the spring of 2018. But once little Parker, her oldest, a few weeks shy of her third birthday, went viral after she stopped still in front of Amy Sherald’s official portrait of former First Lady Michelle Obama, their world hasn’t been the same.

Cut to today, when Curry is a mom of three, including Parker, now four, Ava, three, and baby Cash, four months — and a published author, alongside Parker, of the New York Times bestselling children’s book Parker Looks Up: An Extraordinary Moment, illustrated by Brittany Jackson, published by Aladdin, a division of Simon & Schuster.

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The museum trip was just one of many in Parker’s young life (Cash has already been to a dozen museums). “It’s important to me as a mom that I broaden their horizons as much as I can,” Curry tells SheKnows. “I was really lucky that I had a mom who exposed us to the arts, at the theater, at live performances, to different kinds of dance, and in museums ourselves as children.” Curry tells SheKnows it was “second nature” to do the same for her kids — aided by the fact that most of the capital’s museums are free.

What makes their story even more powerful is that before that point, Curry had never shared a photo of her daughter publicly. But on that day, a stranger snapped a photo of Parker from the side; they posted it on Facebook and started racking up Likes. Curry was dropping her sister off at the airport when her phone started blowing up.

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Courtesy of Jessica Curry.

“I didn’t even know that little moment had occurred until I saw the photo,” explained Curry. Then she second-guessed herself — “I have mommy brain,” she says — wondering if she’d simply forgotten. But she’d been too busy at the museum trying to coax Parker to turn around so she could get her face with Mrs. Obama’s portrait behind her (no matter how many times Curry said “please,” Parker wouldn’t budge).

Within days, Curry had to make a choice: try to minimize her daughter’s exposure, or run with it. She chose the latter, despite her previous promise to herself to safeguard Parker’s privacy on social media until she turned 18 and could decide for herself. Though Curry had started blogging a year and a half after Parker was born, she’d never posted photos of her face; she didn’t even share her name online for the first eight months.

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Image: Courtesy of Jessica Curry.

“I decided to accept our fate being publicly recognizable when I was inundated by the most beautiful, loving and kind messages from people all over the world who were expressing their gratitude for sharing that moment,” explained Curry, who now is recognized almost every time she and Parker are out and about. “I decided that if she wanted to do interviews and she wanted to talk about that moment, I was going to support her in that.” Curry makes it clear that “being famous was never on my agenda when I had children,” but she tells SheKnows she “knew this would have the ability to change the trajectory of her life.”

It’s Parker who’s shown a willingness to be in the spotlight (albeit in limited doses). “She will take a picture with whoever asks; she will sign books until the last book is signed,” notes Curry.

At the time of the photo, Curry says Parker knew Michelle Obama was First Lady and lived in the White House, which they’d visited a few times. She’d seen her dancing on Ellen, which Parker “was amused by,” and Parker knew Mrs. Obama was someone her mom spoke highly of and admired.

Curry says that several factors played a role in making Parker look up — one, the resemblance of Michelle Obama to her. “To see a woman of color who looks like your mommy has to be inspiring,” Curry tells SheKnows, adding that Obama is just “so poised and regal in that picture.” It makes sense that Parker thought she was a queen.

These days, Michelle Obama isn’t a distant royal figure to the Curry family; she’s a friend. During my interview with Curry, Parker asked her mom if she could speak to me, and then she proudly stated: “I got to meet her three times.”

The first meeting happened within days of their viral moment; Obama and Parker danced together. When the Currys later saw Michelle Obama on her Becoming book tour, Parker told her she was writing her own book, and Obama replied, “Now we’re both authors.” Parker even got to present her idol with a copy of her book once it was finished. “It was a beautiful full-circle moment,” said Curry. “You could tell Parker was so proud to show her.”

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Courtesy of Jessica Curry.

While viral fame could have disrupted Parker’s life, Curry has made sure that her daughter sticks to her routine — and has agency. She and her husband don’t make decisions about media interviews for Parker, but with her (and planned around naptime and meals).

Of writing the book, Curry said, “It was something I wanted to do for Parker. I wanted her to be able to remember this moment. I wanted it to be something meaningful and impactful for her legacy.” The process “was exciting every single time we got a new set of illustrations. Then to see the final product was overwhelming. For me this book was absolutely a dream.”

Curry doesn’t have an ounce of regret, despite her early attempts to shield her daughter’s privacy. “That moment is bigger than Parker; it’s bigger than me,” Curry tells SheKnows. “It’s about the power of art and the power of portraiture and the power of representation.”

Mother and daughter will be doing select events around Parker Looks Up, including appearing in February at the African American Children’s Book Fair, and they’re at work on another book about Parker. “Our dream would be to turn Parker Looks Up into an animated series,” Curry adds. And we have no doubt she’ll make that dream come true.

A version of this story was originally published in December 2019.

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