The New-Baby Essentials Parents Forget

So you’re expecting a baby — congratulations! Whether you’re birthing or adopting, you’re likely stockpiling all the baby essentials you anticipate your new addition will need. Chances are you’ve read endless lists of “must-haves” that “every new baby” absolutely “NEEDS.” Perhaps your coworkers have even showered you with diapers, relatives have encouraged you to buy a specific brand of bottles, and friends have gifted you precisely nine thousand adorable onesies.

There’s so much to-do (and research, and discussion and price hikes) around baby “necessities” like a stroller, burp cloths, and swaddlesbut when I was a new mom, I was shocked by how many things I’d never even thought about became necessities for me.

The list ahead chronicles everything I wish I’d stocked up on pre-baby — instead of wasting another hour researching stroller brands. Do yourself (and kiddo) a favor and add the following items to your shopping cart well before you bring home baby.  


Voniko batteries
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Plenty of hands-free breast pumps, sing-along toys and cordless baby monitors all require batteries. It’s a good idea to stock up now so that you don’t run out of juice mid-, um, juicing. Oh, and don’t forget to replace your smoke detector batteries while you’re at it. That chirping smoke detector is definitely going to stealth-wake up your sleeping baby in the middle of the night.

Voniko batteries, $9.45 at Amazon 

Thank-you cards

Thank you cards Artifact Uprising
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Lucky new parents tend to receive quite a few gifts once their little one is born. Save a trip to the store and stock up on some extra cards now so you can send a quick note of gratitude. 

Thank-you cards, from $1 per card at Artifact Uprising.


Woodstock postage stamps
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Know that frustrating feeling of checking those thank-you cards off your to-do list only to find that you’re fresh out of stamps to actually send them? Stash away some extras for all of those new-baby gifts that will roll in once your little one makes his debut.  

USPS Woodstock 50th anniversary stamps, $19.99 at Amazon  

Blackout curtains 

Blackout curtains
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You may have already adorned your nursery with blackout or room-darkening curtains, but if the baby will be sharing your room for a while, don’t forget about your own window treatments. Blackout curtains will help you get that much-needed shuteye on nights when you’re beating the sun to sleep or during the daytime when you’re trying to sneak in a nap.  

Maevis 99% blackout curtains, $22.90 at Amazon 

A shower head with attachment  

Delta faucet handshower
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A shower head with a removable hand shower will make bath time way easier (and more fun!) for parents and kids alike. Rather than sopping up a washcloth to clean your cutie, you can set the Delta Faucet to its hand-shower-only setting and rinse your baby in the tub while adding in a little more play. 

Delta Faucet 5-Spray H2Okinetic In2ition 2-in-1 Dual Hand Held Shower Head with Hose, $102.99 at Amazon.

A really good water bottle

Funus water bottle
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You’ll want to stay extra-hydrated post-baby, and a nice water bottle will make that possible. Something with a handle may also be helpful so you can cart both your kiddo and your water from room to room. 

FUNUS big water bottle, $14.99 at Amazon 

A mesh laundry bag  

Mesh laundry bag
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All of those infant socks are adorable, but a match can go missing quickly. Toss teeny-tiny socks into a bag like this one for easy laundering without losing a mate 

mDesign medium laundry mesh wash bag, $4.99 at Amazon  

A clock for the nursery  

Nursery digital clock
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A clock in the nursery will be helpful to track feeding times and to simply keep you sane. One that displays the day of the week and the temperature will work wonders to combat that Mom Brain of yours. 

HeQiao silent desk clock, $13.99 at Amazon 

Reliable food storage containers

Bento box pottery barn kids
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Grab yourself some food storage containers with compartments and fill them with breastfeeding-friendly snacks like cheese and crackers, fruit and nuts so you can easily munch one-handed. Bonus points if you can find someone else to pack them for you. 

Rectangle Bento, Spencer stainless, $39.50 at Pottery Barn Kids. 

A cordless phone charger

Cordless phone charger
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New parents use their phones for…practically everything. From tracking diapers and feedings to scrolling social media to phoning family members, there’s no doubt an extra charging device will come in handy. Equip yourself with a cordless option for one-handed recharge.  

Yootech wireless charger, $25.99 at Amazon 

A silk pillowcase

Silk pillowcase
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Okay, so a silk or satin pillowcase isn’t a necessity when bringing home baby, but it will feel pretty necessary once you snag one — guaranteed to make the limited sleep you’ll be getting feel extra luxurious.   

Bedsure satin pillowcase for hair and skin, $8.98 at Amazon  

Extra photo storage

unlimited photo storage
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Queue the mom-arazzi; if you have a sneaking suspicion that taking pictures of your newborn is about to become your new favorite hobby, you will need ample storage to capture every precious moment. Now is the time to download an app like Amazon Photo so you’ll have extra capacity for each varied angle of the same shot. Hey, they’re only little once! 

Amazon photos, free download at Amazon 

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