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Every Type of Parent You’ll Meet at Back-to-School Night

Elizabeth Alterman

Does your kid need a bit more inspiration to get in the mood for the first day of school?Back-to-school night is an opportunity to meet your childs teacher and learn all about whats in store for the exciting year ahead. At the same time, you come face-to-face with the parents of your childs classmates, which, if were being honest, can be way more interesting than hearing about the curriculum. 

From tiger moms to interrogator dads, theres no shortage of characters on this always-enlightening evening. Take a look at some of the personalities you may bump into at BTS night.

The New Parent

This is their first child, and they couldn’t be more attentive. They’re nodding like a bobblehead and taking notes faster than a court stenographer. They’ve had the school supplies packed since late June and stay up until 2 a.m. combing through Pinterest boards learning how totransform simple sandwiches into animal faces to prevent lunch fatigue. It’s going to be the#bestyearever! 

The Veteran Parent

They’ve heard this song and dance four times before. They’re only here because it’s deliciously quiet compared to their home. You’llrecognize them immediately because they’re smiling at the right times but not listening to a word of this presentation.  

The Real Housewife/husband

This parent has, apparently, mistaken back-to-school night for a reality show casting call. They’ve got Botox, great (read: expensive) teeth, and they’re here to flaunt it all. 

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The Perennial PTA President

Want to ensure your kid has a great year? Start by visiting the bake sale and the book fair, this parent demands.You can try to sneak out before last period to miss this parent, but oh no, they’llfind you. Short of hiring a hostage negotiator, there’s no way you’re leaving the building until you’ve signed up to co-chair at least one fundraiser.  

The Academic Overachiever

School’s been in session for less than a week, but this parentwants to know why homework hasnt been assigned yet. Though it’s the beginning of second grade, this smarty pants is asking for SAT prep book recommendations. Ifyou’re guessing that this is the family whose Tesla has the “Valedictorians aren’t born, they’re made! bumper sticker, you’re right!  

The Doesn’t-Want-to-Be-Here Parent

They’re still wearing a suit, they haven’t had dinner, and they’re bitter about it. They won’t ask a single question, but if he did, it would be, “Can’t you put all this in an email?” 

The Shameless Braggart

This parent casually mentions that theirfamily summered in Europe this year, and after visiting the Louvre, the Tate, and the Vatican, they want to know how the school plans to step up its art program this year. 

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The Green Parent

This environmentalist is here solely to remind you that you and your loved ones are killing the planet with your plastic sandwich bags and disposable water bottles. They’re asking that going forward, you wrap your childs lunch in palm fronds and refrain from idling in pick-up or drop-off lines. Thank you, and we’re doomed.

The Entrepreneur

This parent is busy memorizing the class email list so they can contact you later and try to sell you essential oils — or better yet, rope you into selling them.

The Narcissist

This parent is turning back-to-school night into a parent-teacher conference and shares that their 7-year-old finished reading War and Peace by the Fourth of July, so how soon can we look into securing an accelerated Language Arts placement just for their kid? 

The Newly Divorced Parent

You can spot them because they’re somehow both the most stressed and the best-smelling parent in the room, and they may even work a mention of their upcoming triathlon into the conversation. Hey, you never know who you’re going to meet at one of these things. They’re just staying optimistic.

The Yoga Parent

Possibly while wearing stretch pants and/or mala beads, this parent is asking that you sign their petition to have mindfulness and Kundalini yoga replace dodgeball and other misanthropic and barbaric activities. Though they’re attempting to exude high levels of chill, they’re cracking their neck like a prizefighter and you’re pretty sure they also flipped you off in the parking lot when they jaywalked in front of your car. You quickly realize its best to namaste out of their way. 

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The “I’m-in-the-Middle-of-a-Kitchen-Reno” Parent

This Chip-and-Jo wannabe rushes in 10 minutes late coated in sheetrock dust. They apologize for interrupting but quickly point out that its their contractors fault and, boy, have they had a day trying to pick out pendant lighting! When the teacher asks if anyone has questions, they raise their hand and want to know if farmhouse sinks “are still a thing” and can someone explain the pros and cons of quartz vs. soapstone countertops?  

The Special Ops Parent

This parent recommends that your child’s teacher be trained in Krav Maga or “mixed martial arts at the very least!” They’d like the principal to run through a lockdown drill after handing out copies of this school’s evacuation plans. Additionally, they’re requesting that the background checks performed on all support staff be made available through either the parent portal or Schoology.

The Interrogator

This parentwants to know the teachers college GPA and her plans for pursuing a doctorate. Has she been offered tenure, and if not, why? Is she married? Does she plan to get pregnant during the school year? If so, whos her replacement? 

The No-Fun Parent

Does this parent’s child really have severe allergies? Or are they just a wet blanket? We may never know. This parent is eager to remind everyone that celebrating birthdays with food is a definite no-no.” They’re suggesting that Herman, the class turtle, be euthanized due to hygiene concerns. And dont even think about including pencils or stickers with the kids’ Valentine cards either. This parent’s son had had adverse reactions to both adhesive and lead.  

The Eye-Roller

Whether the teacher is explaining an upcoming science project or talking about the end-of-the-year field trip, this parent is here for none of it. This We didnt have any of this when I was in school!” parent will also spend the next few months instigating fights in community Facebook groups just for the sport of it.  

Sometimes back-to-school night is enough to make you consider homeschooling. That said, dont miss this opportunity to meet your childs teacher and fellow parents, who are sure to provide more entertainment than your favorite Netflix series. Enjoy and best of luck! 

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