Here's What's Actually Involved in the 'Girlfriend Experience'

Oct 9, 2018 at 3:00 p.m. ET
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With the release of the 2016 TV series The Girlfriend Experience and the 2009 film of the same name, the term has found its way into the limelight, but what exactly is the girlfriend experience, and why would someone want it?

When visiting a legal brothel for the first time, many visitors find it very difficult to pick which activities to enjoy and what type of party experience will truly satisfy them. In truth, all the services we’re able to provide can feel a little overwhelming at first if you just reach for a menu. In my experience, I’ve found that the girlfriend experience is the most common request I receive.

It’s sex and intimacy with all the warmth, passion and enthusiasm that always seems to be missing from casual encounters. You’ll get to enjoy and appreciate all the best parts of a relationship without any of the commitment or strings that would normally be attached. As long as you remember it’s a professional interaction first and an experience second, the GFE is the perfect choice for someone looking to rediscover emotional and physical intimacy.

1. Engaged, enthusiastic companionship

Throughout our time together, be that an afternoon, a day or a weekend, we will get to explore the things you’re passionate about. From leisurely hikes through the local Nevada hills to one-on-one activities in private, a lady like me can be right there on your arm helping you to enjoy a much-deserved getaway. Most people don’t like to travel alone, and the girlfriend experience lets you have a companion to share experiences with. You can expect that as a local, a lady will have different suggestions for things to do, places to eat and activities we can enjoy in and out of the bedroom.

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2. Genuine connection

Part of the girlfriend experience is building a genuine human connection. The human company is part of a paid service, but the interactions are as real as they can get. You can expect a lady like me to be interested in getting to know you and to be willing to invest the time to form a deep meaningful friendship. Sex and romance are so much more intense if we spend time getting to know each other prior to our special date. Weeks of texting, exchanging photos and flirtation help to build excitement for our face-to-face encounter. Rather than meeting a stranger, you’ll be greeting a familiar, flirty friend. When you see their eyes light up and see them smile before they throw themselves into your arms and give you a kiss, you’ll understand what makes the GFE so special and such a frequent request.

3. Unparalleled lovemaking skills

A lady like myself is an expert at the art of lovemaking, and we always enjoy sharing our craft with others. Allow someone like me to guide you through different positions, sensations, toys and experiences that will delight all your senses. From soft kisses trailed down the side of your neck to whispered quiet moans of pleasure when our bodies meet, you can expect to be thoroughly pleasured during our time together and to really feel the passion of another person’s presence.

4. Intimacy

Many of my visitors complain genuine intimacy is missing from their lives. Picture having someone in your life who feels like a lover and best friend. That’s what GFE is like when it’s done properly. Legal ladies who want to really offer a proper GFE will exchange numbers with you after you make an appointment so you can spend a little time getting to know one another and plan your fun. Valentine’s Day cards, birthday wishes, pictures of my cats — you’ll get to intimately know me while I get to know you.

Intimacy is my favorite aspect of GFE encounters. I find that I grow as a person with each new experience I have, so I always enthusiastically look forward to it. There are so many interesting things you can learn and explore about yourself by learning to explore someone else.

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5. Virginity

GFE is, in my opinion, the way to lose your virginity. You get to express and enjoy yourself in a pressure-free environment, go out on a date, enjoy a real human connection and then fall into the arms of a person who truly understands and appreciates you for the person you are. Adult virginity can be very stigmatizing and can cause a lot of anxiety, so knowing you’re with an expert who cares only about your experience and confidence can lift that veil of tension and let you really explore and define what sexuality means to you.

6. Back in the saddle

Have you been out of relationships for a long time? Has it been months, years or even decades since you’ve been on a date? As we go through life, we start to take certain things for granted. For example, once we’re in a committed relationship, we don’t expect to return to the dating game and perhaps forget altogether how to even date someone new.

This occurrence is more common than you’d believe and frequently one that is resolved here at legal brothels. It’s expected that you’ll be nervous. Perhaps your partner died years ago, and you’ve finally now got it in you to open your heart again. Perhaps you’ve been through an uncomfortable divorce and aren’t comfortable with flirting anymore. Regardless of the reason, GFE is the perfect way to rediscover your romantic self.

As you can see, there are myriad reasons someone would be interested in the GFE. Some visitors don’t have the time or inclination to be in a standard reciprocal relationship, have disabilities or other health conditions or have personality quirks that make dating difficult or even impossible. The girlfriend experience can be a godsend to those who are interested in all of the joy of dating and intimacy without any of the crippling pressure of rejection, performance anxiety or the give-and-take that a normal partner would come to expect.

Alice Little is a courtesan at the Moonlite Bunny Ranch in Nevada.

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