They say that beauty is in the eye of the beholder, but what if the beholder is a beast? That’s the question you’ll be asking yourself when Venus opposes Pluto on May 21. For some reason you seem to be bringing out the worst traits in your paramour these days. He gets angry at everything you do, jealous of the time you spend with friends and controlling in a way that just doesn’t feel OK. It’s almost like you can’t win for trying. Every relationship goes through its bouts of insecurity — periods of time where one partner feels on surer ground than the other, but that doesn’t make unacceptable behavior acceptable. Even in the fairy tale, there were times when Beauty had to bring the beast to heel. The same needs to be done now.