We all crave attention and there’s nothing wrong with that. However, there’s a difference between positive attention and negative attention and that’s something that you’ll want to watch out for when Venus enters Aries on Feb. 20. Venus in Aries can lead you to overplay your hand with the men in your life. Flirting with your boyfriend’s friends, forcing the issue of promotion with your boss by talking about how rival companies are headhunting you or meeting with a client after hours won’t get you the attention you want. If anything, it will do more harm than good. Cool it with the self-promotion. Don’t push so much and people will recognize you for who you are. Venus will be in Aries from Feb. 20 to March 17.