Projection is when you see in others the things you don’t want to acknowledge about yourself. For instance, those who are the most scandalized by people being gossips are often the first ones to tweet what a friend just texted in confidence. Projection takes on a more blind intensity however when it involves someone you love. This is something you’ll want to keep in mind on Jan. 19 when Venus, the planet of mirrors, forms an opposition to Jupiter, a planet known for its self-righteousness. Remember that when you are being loudest, high-handed and condemnatory, chances are you’re talking more about yourself than you are about him. It’s human nature to focus on the foible in someone else in order to avoid recognizing the fault in ourselves.