Are you a top or a bottom? That’s what you’ll be wondering on Oct. 23 when the moon occults Venus in Scorpio. Top and bottom are more than sex positions; they’re metaphors for power and the way that power is expressed in relationships. If you and your partner are versatile and like to change it up a bit, then no worries. This kind of planetary energy will spice things up. But if there are deeply hidden issues concerning dominance and submission, then that could spell trouble. And we’re not just talking tie me up, tie me down. Money can be used as a form of dominance as can cheating, emotional withholding and bullying. If any of that is going on in your relationship, then this is your chance to clean up your act.