It doesn’t matter if you’re in a long-term relationship, short-term relationship or you’ve been married for 10 years, seducing your guy over and over again is a valuable trick to keep the romance alive. Check out our tips for avoiding staleness and reviving your love.
Ludacris was overly generous in his “What’s Your Fantasy” lyrics, so if he’s willing, then there’s no reason us gals shouldn’t be either. Get to know his fantasies, even if they are you dressing up as Little Bo Peep and him as a sheep; I’m sure there’s some sex appeal you could find in that. Dress to the nines in his ultimate fantasy look and make it come true for him. Doing this every so often will keep your sex life happy and frequent. Make sure your fantasies are being fulfilled as well. Sex is a two-way street, after all.
Concoct a playlist
Not just any playlist, but a seriously sexy one. Include all of the songs that get you and your man in the mood. You can let him in on your ploy and pick them out together, or you can always strike while the iron is hot and throw it on while you’re both already in the mood. Marky Mark and the Funky Bunch’s “Good Vibrations” tends to be a favorite or is that just mine? Either way, there’s a good chance that either tactic will get him randy!
Visit a lingerie shop… together
You know when you’re shopping by yourself for lingerie? Well, that’s a little different than actually going together. So bring your man and get to shopping. Victoria’s Secret is usually the go-to guide for sexy lingerie, but get a little naughtier and visit your area’s hole in the wall shop… like where the strippers shop. Have him pick out a few things and try them on for him. If you both are feeling really bold, there’s no telling what could go down in a small dressing room…
glam rock strip tease
What guy doesn’t want to see a hot girl shaking it to Def Leppard’s “Pour Some Sugar On Me” or Warrant’s “Sweet Cherry Pie?” That’s right, not many. So if you’re used to giving him a sexy tease to something by Usher or Jay-Z or Britney Spears, stop it, just stop it. Pull on some black fishnets, tease your hair, swipe on some red lipstick and bring out those patent leather boots because it’s go time. Seriously, this is a fool-proof strip tease. Even if you wear a pair of jeans and a white tee, all you need to do is get it wet.