Even though it doesn’t feel like it to most of us, May 5th has finally arrived. To some of you, that’s just another day on the way to summer. For others, it brings to mind margaritas and tacos and an excuse to party (via Zoom of course): Cinco de Mayo (literally, “fifth of May”). Admittedly, as a white, non-Hispanic person, I can’t tell you the lived experience of being a Mexican watching all the stupid shenanigans Americans get up to on May 5. What I can say is, folks, we need to be better than this with non-offensive ways to celebrate the holiday.
The truth is that Americans are way more into May 5 than Mexicans are, in part because the date refers to a battle against the French that took place in Puebla in 1862. Although the Mexican troops won that battle, they later lost a second Battle of Puebla to the French. In fact, Cinco de Mayo didn’t really gain steam as a holiday in the U.S. until the 1960s, probably as an excuse to sell more beer.
None of that has stopped Americans from turning it into a national event. Hopefully, by now you know well enough that if you’re not of Hispanic descent, donning a sombrero and poncho for the festivities is problematic (cultural appropriation, anybody?) Hopefully, you also know well enough not to speak in silly (and offensive) accents, and you’ve decided not to streak through the night yelling “Cinco de Drinko!” We know this, right? Right?
That doesn’t mean you can’t celebrate. If you’d like to recognize Cinco de Mayo — without looking like an ignorant jerk — here are some ideas.
1. Learn more about Mexican history…
… starting with the fact that Mexico’s real independence day is Sept. 16, which is recognized as the beginning of the revolt against the Spaniards.
Mexico is full of rich history. Whether you start with the Olmecs, the earliest known society in Mexico, and work your way forward, or start with more recent times, there’s no shortage of human stories to learn from. Challenge yourself to learn something new.
2. Read books by Mexican or Mexican-American authors
Try I Am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter by Erika L. Sanchez, The House on Mango Street by Sandra Cisneros, The Hummingbird’s Daughter by Luis Alberto Urrea or The Distance Between Us by Reyna Grande.
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“The agua de jamaica is tart, sweet, and refreshing. I pour myself another glass. If the night were made into a drink, it would taste like this.”🌺 . . . So ecstatic that Mexican American female authors like @erikalsanchez exist in the same universe as me. Warms my heart to see books from women of color being publish more and more. . . . The lead female character is a brown skin Mexican American teenager with trenzas! Braids. Long braids that resembled my own. We share the same language and I laughed out loud at the similarities of our shared culture. There are references such as the icon Juan Gabriel, eating tortillas, and drinking agua de Jamaica. She’s dealing with death, depression, complicated family relationships and the drama of growing up. . . Desperately wish these types of books and authors existed when I was growing up. Definitely recommend, especially to young readers. #iamnotyourperfectmexicandaughter . . Plus you have to check out her amazing article, Learning To love My Brown skin. . . #iamnotyourperfectmexicandaughter #erickalsanchez #femaleauthors #books #bookish #libros #booksrecommendation #bookstagram #bookstoread #bibliophile #browngirlsreadtoo #wellreadmujer #mybookfeatures #reading
3. Watch Mexican movies & shows
There are several movies available to stream. Try I Dream in Another Language or Roma for starters. The same goes for shows. Try Rebelde or La Reina del Sur. Netflix even produced a fictional show, Ingobernable, about the president and first lady of Mexico that has gotten rave reviews.
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This isn’t everyone’s cup of 🍵, but for those who appreciate film as an art – they will love it. The pace is intentionally slow and the beauty is in the small moments. It’s a heart breaking love letter that pays tribute to a woman we know all too well, yet don’t know at all. Kudos to @netflixfilm for stepping up their film again yet again. 🍿🍿🍿🍿🍿 #Roma #RomaMovie #Netflix #NetflixFilm @alfonsocuaron #moviereviews #filmreviews #moviecritic
4. Support local Mexican-American businesses
Skip chain restaurants like Chipotle or Taco Bell. Whether it’s ordering takeout from a food truck or ordering some new clothes online from a clothing store, support businesses owned by local Mexican-Americans instead.
5. Cook at home
Experiment with Mexican cuisine from the comfort of your own kitchen. Try to go beyond recipes and learn about the cuisines of different areas in Mexico — Baja, Yucatán, Jalisco — and a bit about their history and how it influences the expression of their local dishes. We love the blog Mi Mero Mole because it is written in English and Spanish and is filled with tons of delicious and authentic vegan Mexican recipes.
6. Listen to Mexican or Mexican-American musicians
Selena counts, yes, but try to expand your experiences here. Spotify has a regional Mexicano (Mexican regional) playlist if you need somewhere to start.
7. Donate to organizations
Here are a few to consider:
Detention Watch Network, which is “working to expose and challenge the injustices of the United States’ immigration detention and deportation system.”
Farmworker Justice, which “seeks to empower migrant and seasonal farmworkers to improve their living and working conditions, immigration status, health, occupational safety, and access to justice.”
Mexican American Legal Defense and Educational Fund, which “promotes social change through advocacy, communications, community education, and litigation in the areas of education, employment, immigrant rights, and political access.”
Happy Battle of Puebla Day.
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