You’re never too old to learn new tricks so if you’re looking to add some spice to your usual romp in the sheets, here are the five moves your guy has been waiting for.
Looking for some new moves to vamp up your lovemaking? While it’s unlikely you’ll come across a position that your guy doesn’t like, here are five new tricks that might just bring a bit of spice back to your sex life.
According to a recent survey by Esquire, the cowgirl is the average guy’s all-time favourite sex position. 30 per cent of guys rated this as their fave, closely followed by missionary and doggy style. While hopping into the driver’s seat may not be your idea of fun, riding your guy is a sure-fire way to please for the simple fact that it allows for maximum penetration. Better still, you’ll be doing all the work (think of the toned thighs you’ll get!), leaving him to sit back and enjoy the view.
If you’re a bit self-conscious then you can opt for the reverse cowgirl instead — you’ll get the benefit of his penis stimulating your g-spot and he’ll get a great view of your derrière, says Beverly Whipple, PhD, and co-author of The Science of Orgasm.
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Guys are visual creatures so if you want a shot of excitement in the bedroom it might be time to invest in some mirrors. A carefully placed full-length mirror will allow your guy a cheeky peek, giving him the opportunity to pretend he’s starring in his very own porno. If you’re not the shy type then make no bones about giving him an eyeful by leading him over to the mirror and showing him your best moves.
Let’s assume for a moment that you’ve engaged in the odd self-pleasure session. It might not be something you want to admit to your guy but chances are he has already assumed that masturbation is something you do when he’s not around and why not? It’s healthy and fun so why not share the love?
Most guys will jump at the chance to watch you pleasure yourself. Not only is it a huge visual turn on but it’s a great teaching tool as well — if you know how to please yourself then you can teach your guy how to do the same. So pop your modesty aside and give your guy a show he’ll never forget.
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Guys, like girls, have nipples and those nipples — just like your nipples — are full of nerve endings that just love to be stimulated.
Not all guys are nipple guys but a little nipple play never goes astray. If your guy has extra sensitive nipples then this, combined with a handjob, will probably be enough to send him to heaven.
Like your nipples, the trick is to go slow and be gentle. Don’t try and twist them off his chest — a few soft kisses, licks and a bit of light rubbing between your thumb and forefinger is all that’s required to get him tingling. If he’s not into it then nothing is lost — simply incorporate a bit of nipple play into your regular routine to help build anticipation.
When you think about pleasuring your guy chances are you’re thinking about the physical. But there’s another key contributor to great sex and that’s the power of your voice.
Speaking or hearing erotically-charged words stimulates the dopamine transmission, which plays a huge role in sexual excitement, says Ian Kerner, PhD and author of Passionista.
From moans and groans to whispering naughty nothings in his ear, talking dirty is a great way to spice up your sex life. You don’t need to get too graphic — a simple “I’m going to cum” at the right time will do the trick — and once you feel more comfortable using your voice you can let your imagination (and tongue) run rampant.
What are your favourite sex moves that drive your guy wild?