Girls are guilty of having their lists of what traits make the perfect man, but we have our own list of what makes the perfect woman. In my opinion, here are six traits that make up the perfect woman.
She‘s sexy not slutty
There’s a huge misconception that guys think the perfect woman needs to dress slutty. Guys like sexy women, and there’s a huge difference between showing some skin and wearing a micro miniskirt to dinner with your boss. The perfect woman knows how to pull off being sexy perfectly with style and confidence. She dresses with the right mix of sassiness without giving away the goods. The perfect woman can flirt with her eyes and not just with her body.
Some of the biggest fights couples have are over watching sports, too much that is. The perfect woman understands that men need to watch sports because it’s in our DNA. The perfect woman knows this and is cool with the fact that we don’t want to go lamp shopping on a Sunday afternoon in the fall. We’d much rather be parked on the couch watching football.
She’s smart & funny
Guys like when a woman laughs at their jokes, but we also like when they add to the comedy. The perfect woman should be able to keep up and add to the banter. She should have an opinion, be well read or at least watch or read the news. Women say guys like to talk about themselves, but we really want a great partner to have a real conversation with and not a bimbo that laughs at everything we say.
She‘s got her life together
Guys want to feel needed but not to have to be the only thing in a woman’s life. The perfect woman has a career, her own set of friends and something she’s passionate about outside the relationship. There’s no bigger turn off than a woman who latches on to your life and invades every aspect of it.
No guy wants a Real Housewives crazy drama queen. Relationships aren’t always the best of times and when there is a fight, we want a woman who’s real and grounded. When there’s an argument, we don’t want a woman who gets crazy and spits venom because that’s a one way ticket to Splitsville. The perfect woman can have a mature conversation about the issue at hand and rationally work through the issue with me.
Guys are like puppies — we want to be loved. What does that mean? When we’re having a bad day, we need unconditional support. When we look good, tell us. When we really put on a show in the bedroom, let us know we’re doing a good job. The perfect woman knows how to unconditionally love her man.