After a divorce, finding someone new may seem impossible, but you can connect with someone special again. Jill Spiegel, author of How To Talk To Anyone About Anything! The Secrets to Connecting, offers these tips on how to attract new love after divorce.
Reach out to someone standing alone.
“Working the room” can be overwhelming. Remember: All you have to do is connect with one person at a time. Find a person standing alone and approach him first. He’ll feel grateful you reached out, which boosts your confidence and helps you connect.
Talk intelligently on any subject.
All it takes is two words: Be curious. When you are passionately curious about other people, you make them feel interesting, special and connected to you. We are all meant to learn from each other.
Exit with: Compliment — Feedback — Compliment
When you feel it’s time to end the conversation, stay connected by saying, “It’s been so great talking with you. I’m going to go check out the band. Your smile has given me a lift!” Surrounding your exit statement with two compliments keeps your connection lasting.
Moving on after divorce
The dating game is tough for anyone and coming out of a long-term relationship doesn’t make it any easier. It can’t hurt to brush up on a few dating dos and don’ts to help you attract the men you want. Connecting with a new special someone is possible, especially if you have a few insider tips on the laws of attraction.