When it comes to relationships, yes, women do tend to think too much. But guess what? It’s better to be prepared and have certain plans and expectations than be completely clueless.
setting the mood
For instance, ‘nights in’ with your man can involve a little strategy. He might try to romance you with flowers, so it’s up to you to set the mood when you retire to your place after a nice date. From mood lighting to comfort, it’s time to ‘get it on.’ Don’t forget the music! A great sensual and sexy playlist will do wonders for your evening.
Try not to fumble around, too. ‘Always be prepared. Have your playlist ready to go on your iTunes or Windows Media Center, so you’re not scrambling last minute or kicking yourself in the butt for not being ready,’ Oh adds.
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And don’t forget about the words. The lyrics in these songs are important, too, says Oh. It’s not just about the beat and the tone. ‘I think acoustic music often fits the bill, but the words have to be romantic–not cheesy,’ he points out. ‘But the classics–you can’t go wrong with those, like Marvin Gaye, Luther Vandross, even Prince.’
Ready for your playlist?
Robin Thicke’s ‘Lost Without You’
Marvin Gaye’s ‘Sexual Healing’
Luther Vandross’ ‘Here and Now’
Usher’s ‘My Boo’
Ginuwine’s ‘I’m In Love’
Jodeci’s ‘Forever My Lady’
Neyo’s ‘Because of You’