Why do you always say “no” when your other half invites you out? Whether it’s an impromptu date night, a weekend getaway or an unscheduled trip, your first reaction is to say that you can’t. Shoot him down enough times and he’ll stop making the effort. This week is the perfect time to revisit your schedule. What’s the point of working as hard as you do if it’s going to squeeze the life out of your romance? It won’t be easy changing the habits of a lifetime, so start with dinner out. It also wouldn’t kill you to pick up the check this once.