Venus will be in Aries from April 5 to 29. This is a difficult place for Venus to be because Venus wants to make love not war, and Aries is ruled by Mars, the warmongering planet. What this means is that you’ll be attracting men into your life who are combative, competitive and provocative. This can be sexy at first until you see that they’re trying to put you in your place. They might regard you as being too feisty, opinionated or (God forbid) independent. Many women tend to dial down these attributes in hopes of making peace, but the stars advise against it. Anyone who has to put you down isn’t someone you want to be with. You want to stand shoulder to shoulder with a potential paramour, not make yourself look bad so he can look good.