For a man, nothing is sexier than a woman who is loud in bed and participates in a little dirty talk. Below are five things your man is dying to hear you mouth off about.
Men want to know that you’re not visualising someone else when you’re with them and that you’re not just phoning it in, so although it may seem basic, saying (or screaming out) his name in bed is a good way to ease into dirty talk. Punctuate it with a few “ooohs” and moans and it will be more than enough to get him going.
If you’re being a tad quiet, many men will take the initiative and let you know what they’d like to hear by peppering you with questions, such as, “What am I doing to you?” and, “How does that feel?” In this case, simply describing what’s happening and how you feel will suffice. However, don’t feel obliged to use curse words if it’s not your style. Instead, take a cue from romance novels and utilise underused verbs like “pulse”, “swell”, and “throb”.
Nothing counts when it’s said in between the sheets, so if you’re feeling confident, why not seize the opportunity and tell him all of your craziest fantasies and dreams? If the thought leaves you tongue-tied, try practising in front of a mirror — especially the naughtiest parts — until you are able to say them without feeling embarrassed or laughing.
Stock dirty phrases
Sometimes just having sex is intimate enough, and the idea of pouring out all of your deepest desires, especially in a new relationship, is too much. However, you don’t want to be mute. For those times, any of the following stock sexy phrases will work:
- “Oh, yeah, right there!”
- “That feels amazing!”
- “Don’t stop; harder!”
- “I want you so bad!”
- “Give it to me!”
- “You animal!”
Men can be just as insecure as women, so sometimes a little vocal encouragement is all that’s needed to let them know that you are enjoying what they’re doing. Sometimes a few soft purrs can be just as effective as a well-rehearsed speech, so don’t be afraid to get creative. Whatever you do to cheerlead them along will make your bedroom romp all the more exciting.