Beware of getting drawn back into a family pattern that you just struggled free from. Mars conjunct Neptune on Jan. 19 shows that a parent or a sibling will be playing the guilt card once again and you could wind up jumping through hoops to try to please them. The definition of insanity is repeating something in hopes that the outcome will be different. Don’t do this to yourself. Make peace with whatever you feel you did wrong. Chances are it’s not all that bad. And even if it were, it still doesn’t justify someone manipulating you.