What does a man really want in the bedroom? Is it true that all they want is for you to show up naked? Join us as we delve into the minds of real guys to discover what rocks their world.
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You’ve heard the whispers about what real guys want in the bedroom — from watching girl-on-girl action to the saucy world of swinging — so we thought it was time we found out the truth from the men themselves. Here are the sex moves they really want to see from you:
1. Chomping on your bottom lip
Keep in mind, girl, that there’s an art to seductively biting your lips. Gently chewing on your bottom lip might be sexy, but trying to bite your top lip makes you look like a piranha. You just tried it out, didn’t you?
2. Sundress to impress
The cliche “show up naked” is like giving someone a Christmas present you haven’t bothered to wrap. Where’s the excitement in that? The consensus of the male species is that sundresses are super sexy, giving you the girl-next-door look and showing off enough of your figure without any spoilers before the grand finale.
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3. Neck kisses
If you want to hear the human equivalent of a cat purr, then kiss your man’s neck. Neck kisses are so popular that they have their own hashtag, and Australian pop singer Cody Simpson even penned a song about them. They can turn the toughest dude into a quivering mess. Don’t try this unless you intend to have your clothes ripped off.
4. Taking your bad mood out in bed
Don’t get mad — get even. If there’s one thing that’s clear from perusing Twitter, it’s that angry sex is more popular than Angry Birds. If you find him picking at you, trying to start a fight, then perhaps he’s hinting that he wants to play rough. If you need inspiration, grab a copy of Fifty Shades of Grey.
5. Speaking dirty in a different language
Whisper “dámelo, bebé” or “je l’aime rugueux” in his ear as you push him up against the wall, and he’ll be under your spell. Don’t worry if you don’t know any foreign languages. Just speak sexy gibberish with an accent. Who’s going to know?
6. Going commando
Aside from saving on laundry detergent, the thought of you going panty-less will send your man into a spin. He’ll be grinning from ear to ear when you’re at a party and you lean over to whisper, “Whoops! I forgot to put on a pair of panties.”
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7. Touching yourself while he watches
If you’re shy or self-conscious about your body or you think masturbation is a dirty word, then this can be a big ask. We guarantee your partner will be extremely grateful and that he won’t be watching for long. Throw caution to the wind, and give it a whirl. Tell him to grab some popcorn, sit back and watch the show.