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5 Ways to get him in the mood

Get him in the mood with these sneaky tactics!

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It’s a rare occurrence that a man isn’t in the mood for some hanky panky, but it does happen from time to time. Here are some surefire ways to keep your man’s attention on you… and off of the game on TV!

Birthday cake bubble bathBubble Bath

After he puts in a long, hard day at the office, why not have him put it long and hard into you? Zing! Draw your man a hot, sensual bubble bath. Research shows that the scent of vanilla is one that turns men on the most and acts as an aphrodisiac. Try our favorite, Philosophy Vanilla Birthday Cake.


Light some (vanilla) scented candles and put them all over the room in anticipation of his arrival. Look, if your man is the type of guy who would light candles to turn you on, then for sure this is something he’d like done for him as well. Rose petals are optional.

Wait in bed

As soon as you hear that front door open, run back into the bedroom and lay on top of the covers — naked. When your man walks in, take the initiative to get him undressed and jump on top of him.

Be aggressive

If you’ve learned anything from Fifty Shades of Grey, it’s how to be dominant. If your man is the one who usually takes charge, it could be a very pleasant surprise to change up the pace. If this is not something that you’re generally comfortable doing, it could be an ultimate turn on for the both of you!


There’s a reason people say that food is the way to a man’s heart. Your goal? Make some food that paves the way to a man’s bedroom. Put together a spread of chocolate fondue complete with strawberries, marshmallows, bananas, graham crackers, pound cake, pretzels, etc. Do not use any utensils as you feed each other playfully and seductively.

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What are some ways you get your man in the mood?

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