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Striptease 101

Give your man a special treat he’ll never forget – a surprise striptease! It’s the perfect unexpected treat, and is something he’s sure to remember better than any box of candy or stuffed animal!

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And don’t worry… any woman can give a great striptease, even if your body isn’t perfect or you’re naturally shy. The following tips will help make certain that your sexy surprise will be an enormous success!


First let’s address what to wear

Choose clothing that accentuates your most beautiful body parts.

This is one time that it”s appropriate to show a lot of skin. Anything from elegant gowns, baby-dolls, sexy lingerie, cute two-piece sets, or little dresses are great to wear.

Whatever you wear, make sure it can be removed easily.

Don’t wear a corset that you have to unbutto and. avoid anything too complicated that you will have to fidget with to get off like a tight dress. Clothing that zips in back or that doesn’t stretch can also be difficult to work with.

Make sure that your panties frame your cheeks and show off your shape.

We all wear those comfy panties that no one else should see, but for the purpose of seducing your man, the guidelines are: the top of the back of your panties should reach no more than two inches above your cheeks. Try on booty shorts, full bottomed panties, thongs, and g-strings to see which you feel best in. Also, if they leave lines on your body after you take them off, they are too tight. When taking your bottoms off, try slipping them off over your shoes or bare feet while standing straight-legged. Do this by bending over from the waist and guiding them off all th e way to the floor and then stepping out of them. If this isn’t easy for you, try bending your knees or taking your bottoms off while lying on your back.

Shoes are a personal preference.

Both looks are sexy! If you do choose to wear shoes, choose them wisely. Stiletto’s high heels are the perfect choice if you can handle them, and they make your legs look like they’re sky high. If moving gracefully in stilettos just isn’t an option, dancing with bare feet can also be very seductive. You should stay away from short, one-inch heels. They look great with pants and skirts, but give the illusion of shortening naked legs. Strapless shoes can be removed gracefully, but if yours need to be buckled, you’ll probably want to remove your clothing without taking off your shoes. Almost anything stretchy can be taken off over your shoes, but it might be a good idea to practice first.

Stockings are a sexy addition to almost any outfit.

They can be knee high or thigh high, worn with or without garters. Whichever you choose, make sure to get a large enough size. It can help to get a size too large so that they don’t constrict your legs and cause unsightly bulges while you’re moving. A tip: it can be super sexy to keep your stockings and garter belt on for a while after your dance. If you’d like to do this, make sure to wear a thong or g-string on the outside so that they can be removed without having to unhook your garters.

The seductive addition of props

Use a rose or a large feather to entice and teast him.

During your dance, take the feather and gently tickle him from his cheek and neck down his shoulder to his fingertips without letting him cop a feel. Sit on a chair and while holding your frame tall, slide your feet apart enough to tease him, and gently dust yourself from neck to thigh with the feather.

The goal is to take off your clothes, but covering up can still be sexy.

Use a nice shawl, wrap, or piece of sheer fabric and wrap it around yourself while giving him peeks. This can also double as a great cover up if you feel uneasy with bearing it all.

Get a retractable pole, now!

They’re easy to install and add an authentic feel to your dance that will make you feel more professional and in control.
{‘Dessert on you’ foods are a must
Whipped cream, chocolate sauce, or any other accessories are great if you want to let him be more than a spectator. Use these sweets as a segue into the interactive portion of your show.

Setting the stage for ambiance

Know your music.

After you choose the songs you want, make a mix CD or playlist and pay attention to the order of the songs so that you can choreograph your routine and not have to change songs in the middle.

lighting is crucial.

Use low, indirect lighting because it is both flattering and intimate. Achieve the perfect lighting by mixing candles with lamps and colored bulbs.


Get comfortable with these dancing tips

Review your moves.

Practice in the mirror, or better yet, videotape yourself dancing so that you can look at yourself and see which moves you like.

Get down on it!

Dance on your feet and down on the floor. On the floor, try opening and closing your legs or leaning your knees from one side to the other. In any standing poses give yourself a spank or wink at your guy. It’s naughty, but cute. And remember to always point your toes whenever your foot is not on the floor. It is more feminine and graceful than a flexed foot. If you run out of ideas, start caressing yourself! It might seem awkward but it’s a given that he will enjoy it.
Striptease 101

Some moves always look good.

One is lying on your back with your knees bent, another is arching your back and the last is bending over from the waist, a little or a lot, with your backside towards your partner. You can also try this from the side angle or while leaning on a chair or against a wall.

Do the electric side.

Try sliding down a wall and then back up. Use your hair while sliding. Men love a flirty mane on a flirty girl. While standing up, kneeling, or sitting, stretch your torso while you pull your hair up and let it fall again. If you have really long hair, arch your back while standing and tilt your head back letting your hair swish your backside.

Don’t just use your body.

Smile at him; use your lips and your eyes to seduce him. Blow kisses, wink, and give him those bedroom eyes. Don’t be afraid to laugh, talk, or even growl if you feel like it. Even if you don’t feel confident, the more confidence you can portray the more erotic it will feel for him.

Lap Dance 101

The point is of a lap dance is to make it more interactive by letting him get in a little snuggling, touching, and kissing in.

Take a seat.

You can sit next to him and then lean over him with your chest touching his, turn toward the ceiling and caress yourself a little, or turn facedown with your shoulder and side rubbing across his tummy and chest. Position yourself on top of him, sitting on your knees on his thighs. This allows you to rise up and down. When rising up, let his nose graze your chest and tummy. You can give him a little squeeze with your breasts as well. When you come down, bring your legs together and slide down to the floor. Simulate what you might do in the bedroom once in a while to really heat things up. Turn around and sit in his lap. Pull up your hair and let yourself lean back to where your shoulders and neck are close to his face. Get creative, caressing yourself and him. Stroke his hair, the back of his neck, and his chest. Kiss him and let him kiss you.

Have fun!

The most important thing to remember is to be yourself. Having fun being sexy for him is more arousing than any of the particular moves or tricks. Pick and choose the tips from this guide that help you to feel confident and go for it! Your Valentine striptease will be a gift he’ll hope to get every year after.

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