16 Cheryl Strayed quotes that will make you re-evaluate your life

Feb 22, 2015 at 3:00 a.m. ET
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"Don't surrender all your joy for an idea you used to have about yourself that isn't true anymore."

1 /16: On identity

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1/16 :On identity

"Fear, to a great extent, is born of a story we tell ourselves, and so I chose to tell myself a different story."

2 /16: On identity

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2/16 :On identity

"Whatever happens to you belongs to you. Make it yours. Feed it to yourself even if it feels impossible to swallow. Let it nurture you, because it will."

3 /16: On identity

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3/16 :On identity

"You will learn a lot about yourself if you stretch in the direction of goodness, of bigness, of kindness, of forgiveness, of emotional bravery. Be a warrior for love."

4 /16: On identity

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4/16 :On identity

"Go, because you want to. Because wanting to leave is enough."

5 /16: On life

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5/16 :On life

"There's no way to know what makes one thing happen and not another. What leads to what. What destroys what. What causes what to flourish or die or take another course."

6 /16: On life

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6/16 :On life

"In my perception, the world wasn't a graph or formula or an equation. It was a story."

7 /16: On life

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7/16 :On life

"The universe, I'd learned, was never, ever kidding. It would take whatever it wanted and it would never give it back."

8 /16: On life

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8/16 :On life

"I was amazed that what I needed to survive could be carried on my back. And, most surprising of all, that I could carry it."

9 /16: On life

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9/16 :On life

"The best thing you can possibly do with your life is to tackle the motherf***ing shit out of it."

10 /16: On forgiveness

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10/16 :On forgiveness

"Be about ten times more magnanimous than you believe yourself capable of. Your life will be a hundred times better for it."

11 /16: On forgiveness

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11/16 :On forgiveness

"Most things will be okay eventually, but not everything will be. Sometimes you'll put up a good fight and lose."

12 /16: On forgiveness

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12/16 :On forgiveness

"How wild it was, to let it be."

13 /16: On forgiveness

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13/16 :On forgiveness

"You have to say 'I am forgiven' again and again until it becomes the story you believe about yourself."

14 /16: On being a good person

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14/16 :On being a good person

"We are all entitled to our opinions and religious beliefs, but we are not entitled to make shit up and then use the shit we made up to oppress other people."

15 /16: On being a good person

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15/16 :On being a good person

"But compassion isn't about solutions. It's about giving all the love that you've got."

16 /16: Pin it!

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16/16 :Pin it!