Relationship Difficulties

Moving in with him: How not to lose your sh*t over the small stuff

Elizabeth Mitchell — Tue, 19 Feb 2013 05:00:00 -0800

Moving in with your man definitely has its perks , but be warned: It’s not all cuddles, kisses and total relationship bliss 24/7. Frankly, a lot of times you’re probably going to piss each other off. It’s how you learn to deal with those subtle differences and annoying little habits that will ultimately set you up for success as a couple though. Take it from me, I know!

An open letter to Rihanna and domestic violence victims

Sheri Meyers, Psy.D. — Tue, 30 Oct 2012 06:00:00 -0700

It seems that Rihanna may have forgiven Chris Brown. Yes, it's a wonderful thing to forgive another who has hurt you and to choose love and inner peace over fear. However, when it comes to forgiving and then returning to an abuser who has put your life in danger, it's not as simple as changing your mind and giving him another chance.

When you don't like your BFF's man

Summer Saldana — Fri, 22 Jun 2012 05:00:00 -0700

What happens when you have a best friend you love and adore and yet she comes with a bit of baggage? And by baggage, we don't mean cute Louis Vuitton luggage. No, in this case we're referring to the man that comes along with her. How do you move past the disgust for him and continue the friendship and love you have for her? Been there? You're not alone....

When to give a guy a second chance

Vicki Clinebell — Mon, 09 Jan 2012 01:58:00 -0800

Making up after the break up — should you give your guy another chance?

The ah-ha divorce moment

Lois Tarter — Wed, 20 Jul 2011 11:06:00 -0700

How do you really know that you are ready for a divorce? When does that moment occur that pushes you to make the final, horrible, scary, leap of faith into the unknown? You spend months – maybe even years – going back and forth between staying and leaving. You talk to anyone who will listen hoping they will help you find the answer. It gets so bad that your sister calls you and asks, "Which side do you want me to be on today?" If only you had a sign when it would all become clear that you have to move on.

5 Tips to heat up your relationship

Melissa Orlov — Thu, 14 Jul 2011 09:40:00 -0700

Has your relationship hit a lull? Although it might sound odd, summer is the perfect time to rekindle intimacy and connection. The season's lazy days, warmer temperatures and overall relaxed feel provide ample opportunities to strengthen your bond. Follow these tips to create a partnership that will last for many summers to come.

He's blown the budget – again!

Noelle Nelson — Tue, 05 Jul 2011 13:01:00 -0700

Arguing about finances is an unfortunately common situation for many couples. Although these fights can be frustrating, SheKnows love expert Noelle Nelson offers a few tips to smooth over the problem and prevent similar arguments in the future.

3 Ways to get over your ex right now

Jessica Padykula — Sun, 26 Jun 2011 12:29:00 -0700

Getting over an ex can often take longer than we'd like. Life is short, so try not to get caught up in an endless loop of sadness. Follow our steps to getting back on track in no time.

Is your guy cheating? 11 Ways to tell

Stephany Alexander — Mon, 20 Jun 2011 08:59:00 -0700

He's staying out late. You don't seem as close. Something doesn't feel right. He's acting differently. But do these things mean he's cheating? As an author and infidelity expert who has given relationship advice to thousands of women for the past decade, I've put together the top 11 ways to catch a cheater so you can find out whether your guy is cheating or not. A woman's gut instinct is rarely wrong, so listen to yours, put on your detective hat and get to work.

Move on from relationship regret

Jessica Padykula — Tue, 14 Jun 2011 15:46:00 -0700

If you've loved and lost, you probably still think about the one who got away. A recent survey suggests that the most common regret among American adults involves a missed opportunity at love. In fact, 44 percent of women surveyed listed romantic regrets as their most memorable, the survey found. If you’re still hanging onto feelings of romantic regret, here’s how to move on.

Get connected with your man

Jessica Padykula — Sun, 12 Jun 2011 11:03:00 -0700

Feeling rushed? Barely enough time to shower let alone have a meaningful discussion with your man? We feel your pain! It's not easy making a relationship work in a fast-paced world, but it's also not an impossible feat. We turned to Renée Trudeau, a nationally-recognized career/life balance coach, to get her advice on keeping the love alive despite stress and a never-ending mountain of to-dos.

Relationship repair: How to make it work

Jessica Padykula — Sat, 11 Jun 2011 15:18:00 -0700

Why do some couples thrive while others seem to spend all their time bickering ? There are many reasons one pairing surpasses another, but one of the biggest relationship roadblocks is negativity. To learn more we turned to Carolyn Kaufman, Psy.D., relationship expert, about how best to keep the flow of communication open and avoid pushing your partner away with negative behavior.

3 Unhealthy relationship habits to curb

Jessica Padykula — Sat, 11 Jun 2011 11:00:00 -0700

Bad relationship habits are easy to form, but hard to break. That's why it's important to keep close tabs on your behavior in order to curb bad habits before they're out of control. Check out our picks for some of the worst offenders.

Does your relationship need a tune-up?

Jessica Padykula — Wed, 08 Jun 2011 09:03:00 -0700

Work, stress and the daily ebb and flow of life can make it hard to stay connected. Sometimes, people don’t even realize a relationship is faltering until problems stare them in the face. Here are a few glaring signs that your twosome is long overdue for a tune-up.

Keep your relationship interesting

Jessica Padykula — Wed, 01 Jun 2011 11:42:00 -0700

Falling into a relationship rut is easier than you think. It happens to the best of us but doesn't mean you and your partner are doomed to live a life of boredom. With a little effort and creativity, you can kick your relationship back into high gear. To find out how we got some rut-busting advice from Alisa Bowman, author of Project: Happily Ever After.

Make your relationship easier

Jessica Padykula — Wed, 25 May 2011 14:14:00 -0700

It’s time to take the stress out of making your relationship work. We all know being one half of a committed couple takes work, but it should also be one of the things that makes you happiest. If you feel like your relationship can use some freshening up lately, we’re here to share some strategies for making love a lot easier. Here are a few of our top tips.

3 Bad reasons to stay with a guy

Jessica Padykula — Wed, 25 May 2011 06:18:00 -0700

There are lots of reasons to try and make a relationship work – if know you still love someone but you’ve hit a rough patch, sometimes all you need is a little extra effort to make things work. But when you stay in a relationship for all the wrong reasons you could be selling yourself short. Wondering what those reasons are? We’ve listed a few of the biggest.

Stop micromanaging your relationship

Jessica Padykula — Thu, 19 May 2011 10:29:00 -0700

The desire to be in control -- or at least feel like it -- is common. Life is crazy and prone to surprises, so a desire to keep a close watch on everything around you is understandable. Trying to oversee every aspect of your relationship isn’t healthy, though, and can be a burden on your bond. Here are a few ways to stop trying to micromanage your relationship.

When your partner is unhappy

Jessica Padykula — Fri, 06 May 2011 17:09:00 -0700

Relationships are great when both parties are happy, healthy and minimally stressed. When one person ends up in a rut or has to deal with a personal setback that leads to depression, though, the other person also suffers. Keeping the relationship on solid ground when one person isn’t happy isn't easy, but we’ve put together some ideas for coping when your other half is dealing with feelings of sadness or self-doubt.

When you can't forgive & forget

Jessica Padykula — Thu, 05 May 2011 09:38:00 -0700

Whether he forgot your anniversary, cheated, neglected to take out the trash or just didn’t notice your new hairstyle, moving past hurt and anger can be difficult. If you feel trapped by feelings of resentment and can’t forgive or forget, here are some strategies for moving forward.

Make the most of a kid-free evening

Jessica Padykula — Tue, 03 May 2011 11:22:00 -0700

Being a parent means giving up most of your free time -- so when you're lucky enough to get a night off from diaper duty or take a weekend away sans children, you'd better make the most of it. Here are some helpful hints on taking full advantage of a romantic, kid-free evening.