Preventing Divorce

Don't let menopause cause a divorce!

Ellen Sarver Dolgen — Thu, 03 Mar 2011 08:19:00 -0800

Women often find themselves divorced at the same time they're going through perimenopause and menopause. Why? Well, while there is never one reason for the breakup of a relationship, it is safe to say that the challenges of perimenopause and menopause can put tremendous strain on a couple. Here's how to diminish that effect.

How to communicate better with your partner

Jessica Padykula — Tue, 15 Feb 2011 07:48:00 -0800

Communicating with your spouse isn’t always easy; things get lost in translation or fights break out. Here, Sharon Rivkin, MA, MFT and author of Breaking the Argument Cycle: How to Stop Fighting Without Therapy tells us how to communicate better in relationships.

How to resolve your next argument

Jessica Padykula — Thu, 10 Feb 2011 16:13:00 -0800

Fights are a fact of relationship life. The hard part, of course, is resolving them quickly and in a way that doesn’t leave one party feeling jilted. Here are some ways to settle your next argument before it turns into an epic battle.

How to deal with marriage humps

Tristan Coopersmith — Thu, 10 Feb 2011 10:19:00 -0800

Remember your wedding day? That beautiful, blissful day when you wished you could just freeze time and live in the fantasy forever? And then there was your honeymoon: days or even weeks of luxurious pampering. Then real life hit, and at some point, you were reminded of why you took that "for better or for worse" vow. Sure, marriage veterans – those who'd survived and those who hadn't – warned you that marriage wasn't easy, that it took work, but wow -- who knew you would hit humps like these? Fear no more: There's no marriage hump you can't get over if you're armed with the right tools.

6 Unique ways to rejuvenate a stale marriage

Kori Ellis — Fri, 04 Feb 2011 13:30:00 -0800

No matter how long you have been married, things can go stale for one reason or another. If you have fallen into a bit of a rut with your partner, incorporate these unique ways to rejuvenate your marriage.

5 Ways to re-fall in love

Tristan Coopersmith — Thu, 03 Feb 2011 19:35:00 -0800

Remember when the very sight of your guy made you weak in the knees? The days when you completed each other's sentences and sealed it with a kiss? The times when his best interest was always top of mind? If those days seem distant, don't worry: You are not alone.

7 Days to a stronger relationship

Jessica Padykula — Tue, 07 Dec 2010 10:48:00 -0800

Being in a relationship isn't always easy. In fact, it takes a lot of effort to make a long-term commitment work. But if you're willing to put some energy into taking your twosome to the next level, your relationship can only change for the better. We look at one thing you can do every day to build toward rekindling the romance and falling in love all over again.

Avoid cheating temptation

Tristan Coopersmith — Mon, 06 Dec 2010 10:34:00 -0800

A new infidelity story seems to hit the media waves every week, and as widely accepted as cheating has become among celebrities, it remains our biggest fear in common marriages. And for good reason! Threats to marriages are everywhere, but the greatest threat – the one you truly need to worry about – is at home. By not maintaining a strong marriage, both physically and emotionally, any marriage runs the risk of becoming unfaithful. Whether your relationship's current status is A+ or faltering, try out this week of activities to keep you and your spouse on a loving, committed track, removing any potential temptation to stray.

Your relationship with your in-laws

Tristan Coopersmith — Fri, 03 Dec 2010 10:49:00 -0800

Just because you've found the perfect husband doesn't mean he was raised by perfect parents. In fact, preferring elective surgery to dinner with your in-laws is rather common; it doesn't make for very happy marriage dynamics, though. So, now is the time to raise your head high, accept that your in-laws aren't going to change, figure out how to put the negativity in the past, turn over a new leaf and learn to love -- or at least tolerate -- your mama- and papa-in-law. Everyone, including you, will be much better off for it.

How to date your husband all over again

Tristan Coopersmith — Thu, 02 Dec 2010 10:00:00 -0800

To keep a marriage bond strong and healthy, it needs to be fed -- and the best way is for husband and wife to spend quality time together. That means dates! Sure, scheduling time for the two of you can be nearly impossible, with demanding work responsibilities, kids' schedules and that oh-so-needed "me time," but prioritizing couple time can make the rest of those things fall more easily into place. So get creative with your calendar and pen in a date night at least once a month so you and your honey can take advantage of these fun ideas.

3 Easy ways to recapture the magic in your marriage

Kori Ellis — Wed, 17 Nov 2010 08:00:00 -0800

Have you lost that magic feeling with your spouse? After a number of years of marriage, you may have gotten so comfortable together that you lost that spark that brought you together, or your life may be so demanding that you have no time to connect. Don't give up on your marriage or settle for the mundane, instead recapture the magic with these simple tips.

4 Tips to jumpstart your sex life

Kori Ellis — Tue, 16 Nov 2010 08:00:00 -0800

Every couple gets in rut every once in a while. If your relationship has been lacking between the sheets, you need to make an effort to jumpstart your sex life. We talked to Tina B. Tessina, PhD, psychotherapist and author of Money, Sex and Kids: Stop Fighting about the Three Things That Can Ruin Your Marriage for her expert advice on how to get your sex life back on track.

Young parents more likely to be depressed

Sarah W. Caron — Tue, 19 Oct 2010 09:51:00 -0700

Being a young parent used to be the norm. These days, many people are waiting to have children, instead focusing on career, travel or just plain fun while in their 20s. But for those who are still having children young, depression can come as part of the package, a new study says.

Sex schedule: It may not sound sexy, but it may help keep both of you happy

Kori Ellis — Mon, 04 Oct 2010 01:39:00 -0700

Work deadlines, soccer practice, baking cupcakes, doing laundry...where's the time for sex? If you find yourself too tired or too busy to have sex, it's time to schedule it!

Understanding your body language

Noelle Nelson — Thu, 30 Sep 2010 06:50:00 -0700

You think you're being so cool. He says, "I'm thinking about taking Saturday off to go fishing with the guys," and you think, "I'm gonna kill him. Saturday was the day he promised to clear out the garage together." But you don't want to have an argument over it or fall into the category of nagging wife. The garage has waited this long, so it can probably wait another week. Exerting enormous self-control, you say, "Fine."

Can your marriage survive his layoff?

Noelle Nelson — Thu, 09 Sep 2010 05:00:00 -0700

Is your marriage strong enough to survive a layoff? Take this relationship quiz to find out.

Love your kids? Love your husband!

Melissa Chapman — Tue, 10 Aug 2010 05:00:00 -0700

Once you become a mother, you’re supposed to sublimate your needs and fully embrace this role -- often to the detriment of your marriage. Alisa Bowman suggests that, if you care about the well being of your children, you do everything possible to nurture your marriage. Here are some easy ways to put your marriage first.

Fight right: How to argue with your spouse without getting nasty

Abbi Perets — Fri, 02 Jul 2010 09:55:00 -0700

Arguing is a normal part of a healthy relationship. You're two different people, and it's only natural that you sometimes have different opinions. What's important is that you learn to express your positions respectfully so that your arguments don't turn into knock-down, drag-out fights.

How to keep your sex life alive after baby

SheKnows Editors — Fri, 11 Jun 2010 08:46:00 -0700

The emotional connection between a couple after baby is miraculous. But finding time for sex in between feedings, burping and changing can be really hard for your sexual connection. A lackluster sex life is one of the most common complaints among couples with kids.Read more about how you can keep the spark after the baby arrives.