Love And Sex Facts

Dealing with a low libido

Kori Ellis — Thu, 17 Feb 2011 13:56:00 -0800

If a waning sex drive is affecting your happiness, self-esteem or relationship, take action and find out what's causing it. Dr. Marilyn Mitchell of ChicagoHealers.com offers these tips for women dealing with a low libido.

What to do when you're not in the mood for sex

Noelle Nelson — Tue, 08 Feb 2011 15:22:00 -0800

It happens to all of us. Sometimes we're just not in the mood for sex. So what's a girl to do? Here's how to take a raincheck for sex.

Simple ways to boost your sex drive

Jessica Padykula — Tue, 01 Feb 2011 06:13:00 -0800

Being “in the mood” can be tricky business. You definitely know when you’re right there in the zone, ready for action, but you also know when you’re at the opposite end of the sexy times spectrum. There are many reasons why you might want to skip sex in favor of sleep , but we’ve put together some surprisingly simple tips for getting in the mood.

How to boost your low libido

Tristan Coopersmith — Wed, 22 Sep 2010 07:08:00 -0700

Your sexual health is an important part of your overall health, but it's an individual thing. There are no rules as to how much sex you should be having, despite what your partner may claim. If your fizzling sex drive is affecting your relationship or your personal happiness, however, know that it doesn't have to. You were born to be a sexual being, but sometimes, the sex drive just gets stuck in neutral. In fact, 40 percent of women complain of low libido. To rev up your engine, you need to know what is causing your disinterest -- and then get ready to move from idle to overdrive.

Do kids kill your sex drive?

Melissa Chapman — Tue, 08 Jun 2010 05:00:00 -0700

We appear like the typical married couple except we have a dirty little secret: For the past four years we've had someone in our bed with us .

Restart your sex drive

SheKnows Love & Sex Experts — Mon, 22 Mar 2010 11:13:00 -0700

The popularity of television shows like Sex and the City has shown that women are interested in sex. Unfortunately, real life tends to get in the way. From taking care of the kids, the house and oftentimes dealing with work on top of that, there isn't always enough time or energy left over at the end of the day.

Is my libido too low? The Best Sex of Your Life

Jennifer Hunt & Dan Baritchi — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 11:31:00 -0800

A low libido can mean more than just a pouty husband. It's frustrating for both parties and can cause a serious snag in your emotional connection. But is it normal to have a lack of interest in sex or could it be that your libido is too low? In this excerpt from our new book, SheKnows Presents: The Best Sex of Your Life, we discuss some easy ways to rev your mojo back up to its tip-top, college-days shape.

Could testosterone boost a woman's libido?

Laura Owens — Sun, 03 Jan 2010 21:26:00 -0800

Not feeling so sexy in the sack lately? Take heart. Low libido is common, it's curable, and it's natural for the big O to go AWOL at certain points in a woman's life. There are as many ways to give your sultry side a lift as reasons your sex drive might be stuck in neutral. Could the male hormone testosterone be the answer?

Online sex chat -- Is it cheating?

SheKnows Love & Sex Experts — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 15:05:00 -0800

As people begin to spend more and more time online for both work and pleasure, it's only natural that you're going to meet people online through websites and even through friends. Sometimes, however, people build relationships with others online, even if they're currently in a relationship with someone in the real world. Is virtual cheating really cheating?

Why have I lost all interest in sex?

SheKnows Love & Sex Experts — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 14:48:00 -0800

Losing interest in sex when you've been in a relationship for awhile, and even if you haven't, can be frustrating and even embarrassing. You want to experience your partner intimately and of course, your partner does too! If you've lost interest in sex with your partner, how can you find out what is behind it? What can you and your partner do?

Homemade sex toys

SheKnows Love & Sex Experts — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 12:08:00 -0800

There are plenty of specialty stores out there selling naughty bedroom accessories, but homemade sex toys seem to reign supreme. With the availability of sex toys these days, not to mention just how very discreet they can be, why are people still using homemade sex toys? And more importantly, are homemade sex toys safe?

Secrets of true sexual confidence

SheKnows Love & Sex Experts — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 10:53:00 -0800

Sexual confidence - or confidence at all, really - is a touchy subject. A lot of people believe they're sexually confident, but inside they're incredibly insecure, waiting for someone else to validate their standing as a sexual human being. Many women know they're insecure, but still try to hide it. How do we become truly sexually confident, accepting ourselves for who we are and the sexual human being we are?

When should you talk to your kids about sex?

SheKnows Love & Sex Experts — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 09:59:00 -0800

Most parents pussyfoot around the dreaded sex talk with their kids. Let's face it -- it's awkward! But the longer you stick to the 'stork' story, the more you're keeping your child from learning about a crucial aspect of their health. So... when should you talk to your kids about sex?

Sexy Christmas gifts for men

Elizabeth Cullen — Fri, 04 Dec 2009 22:41:00 -0800

Men can be difficult to shop for during the Christmas season. Instead of getting him another sweater he likely will not wear, give him what no man can turn down -- the gift of getting laid. You're sure to have a naughty XXXmas with the sexy gift ideas below!

The effects of marijuana on sex

Brie Gatchalian — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 13:04:00 -0800

Smoking a jane might make you think you're feeling the love, but studies show marijuana can be detrimental to your sex life. See how marijuana can turn your sexy time from smokin' hot to a real drag.

The ultimate sex playlist

Brie Gatchalian — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 15:43:00 -0800

When it comes to relationships, yes, women do tend to think too much. But guess what? It's better to be prepared and have certain plans and expectations than be completely clueless.

His sex tips for you

Brie Gatchalian — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 07:26:00 -0800

Okay, I'll admit it -- I don't entirely know what I'm doing in bed. I try my best and I've learned a couple of tricks over the years, but as far as knowing it all -- there's still so much for me to learn.

How to get the lust back in your libido

Aimee Raupp — Fri, 23 Oct 2009 15:22:00 -0700

We all know that the desire to get down with your partner can fade at times. But, seriously, ladies, in our 20s, 30s and 40s, we should be raging sex goddesses. Sometimes, though, it's more than a hectic life that keeps us from wanting to have sex.

6 Ways to have spontaneous sex

Brie Gatchalian — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 15:33:00 -0700

After a few years of knockin' da boots, sex can settle into a routine. Obvious fact of the day: routines are boring! Want to feel like a hormonally hopped-up teenager again? Master the element of surprise. Here's how spontaneity can save your sex life.

Increase your sex drive with aphrodisiacs

Margeaux Baulch Klein — Thu, 24 Sep 2009 16:48:00 -0700

Certain perfumes and scents can double as aphrodisiacs to increase your sexual drive and attractiveness without a lot of work.