Infidelity

How to come together as a couple during a crisis

Summer Saldana — Fri, 01 Jun 2012 09:00:00 -0700

When life is good, being married and keeping a relationship together can sometimes seem hard enough to do. And it can especially feel impossible when you are combining two very different people with very opposite pasts. But, when life is added in, and the storms begin to swirl, it sometimes seems as though there is no way to stick together and survive the mess. Trust us though, when we say it IS actually possible, and there are so many examples of couples out there with inspiring stories to share.

Dads cheat because of mom's parenting choices

Monica Beyer — Tue, 08 May 2012 14:00:00 -0700

If you strive to be the perfect parent, are you driving him to an affair? Some think so. Read on to discover why.

Why people cheat: Understanding infidelity

Jessica Padykula — Thu, 26 Apr 2012 05:00:00 -0700

Cheating sucks, but it’s continually a problem . If you’re currently dealing with a cheating scandal of your own or have dealt with one in the past, we put together some information and tips to help you through the worst of it.

6 Steps for dealing with a cheating spouse

Jessica Padykula — Thu, 01 Dec 2011 09:00:00 -0800

He cheated. Now what? If you’ve recently discovered your spouse was unfaithful, your head is probably spinning. To help you handle the initial shock and avoid an anxiety-induced meltdown, we’ve put together six survival strategies for dealing with a cheater.

Talking to your children about infidelity

Mary Fetzer — Wed, 30 Nov 2011 08:00:00 -0800

An affair can tear apart a family, and what you tell your children about it can impact your relationship with them now and in the long run. There is no simple solution, but one expert offers advice on the right way to talk --or not talk -- to kids about infidelity.

Male cheaters getting busted in a pretty painful way

Chrissy Callahan — Wed, 05 Oct 2011 11:15:00 -0700

A new study suggests that cheating men are more likely to suffer penile fractures. Seems like poetic justice, no?

Busted! 3 Stupid cheating mistakes

Jamie Beckman — Thu, 01 Sep 2011 13:00:00 -0700

We've all heard about criminals making dumb mistakes -- posting on Facebook about the crime they've just committed or holding up a convenience store using a banana as a weapon, for example. We asked private investigator Mark Chauppetta, who specializes in catching cheating spouses, to share his top stories about cheaters who made stupid mistakes and blew their own covers.

Is he cheating? A private eye shares his secrets

Jamie Beckman — Tue, 26 Jul 2011 07:00:00 -0700

No one likes to think their spouse is cheating. But the ugly truth is about half of people admit to being unfaithful sometime in their lives, according to a 2007 survey. We talked to real-life private investigator Mark Chauppetta, who tracks down cheaters for a living, and asked him for the top five signs to look for if you suspect your partner is being unfaithful.

Is your guy cheating? 11 Ways to tell

Stephany Alexander — Mon, 20 Jun 2011 08:59:00 -0700

He's staying out late. You don't seem as close. Something doesn't feel right. He's acting differently. But do these things mean he's cheating? As an author and infidelity expert who has given relationship advice to thousands of women for the past decade, I've put together the top 11 ways to catch a cheater so you can find out whether your guy is cheating or not. A woman's gut instinct is rarely wrong, so listen to yours, put on your detective hat and get to work.

4 Reasons guys cheat

Jessica Padykula — Fri, 01 Apr 2011 14:03:00 -0700

Trying to figure out why guys cheat can feel like banging your head against a brick wall. He’s in a relationship with a woman who treats him well and he seems happy, so why does he pull the ultimate dealbreaker by being unfaithful? Here are a few of the main reasons a guy ends up sleeping with someone else.

He cheated: Now what?

Jessica Padykula — Thu, 31 Mar 2011 12:12:00 -0700

Finding out your spouse or partner cheated is many women’s worst nightmare. Some turn a blind eye, others forgive and forget, while still others immediately end the relationship. Whatever your thoughts on infidelity are, we have some strategies for dealing with the aftermath.

7 Smart reasons to break up

Tristan Coopersmith — Thu, 03 Feb 2011 12:00:00 -0800

We all know the major reasons to breakup with someone: infidelity, no common goals, abuse, loss of interest. But do you really have to wait until one of these biggies happens to call it quits? Wouldn't it be more admirable to take the high road and say goodbye before smaller things build up into one of the majors? Here's a look at some of the less severe but equally legitimate and smart reasons to break up with someone so that you can move toward a more fulfilling relationship.

How to forgive and move forward after an affair

Kori Ellis — Thu, 27 Jan 2011 06:43:00 -0800

An affair can be devastating to a marriage or relationship. If you have decided to stick with your partner after an affair, you need to truly forgive him. You don't want to live your life always suspicious, resentful and bitter. Larry A. Bugen, Ph.D., author of Stuck On Me…Missing You: Getting Past Self-Absorption to Find Love, offers these tips for couples who want to move forward after an affair.

Real stories: Cheaters and the women who stay with them

Kori Ellis — Wed, 12 Jan 2011 08:51:00 -0800

Most women believe: "Once a cheater, always a cheater." However, we talked to two women who believe their husbands cheated once and will never do it again.

Avoid cheating temptation

Tristan Coopersmith — Mon, 06 Dec 2010 10:34:00 -0800

A new infidelity story seems to hit the media waves every week, and as widely accepted as cheating has become among celebrities, it remains our biggest fear in common marriages. And for good reason! Threats to marriages are everywhere, but the greatest threat – the one you truly need to worry about – is at home. By not maintaining a strong marriage, both physically and emotionally, any marriage runs the risk of becoming unfaithful. Whether your relationship's current status is A+ or faltering, try out this week of activities to keep you and your spouse on a loving, committed track, removing any potential temptation to stray.

5 Signs he's having an affair

Kori Ellis — Wed, 03 Nov 2010 13:07:00 -0700

Do you suspect your significant other is having an affair? Don't start making wild accusations just yet. Watch for these signs that he might be cheating and then decide what you are going to do about it.

Stop female predators from stealing your man!

Noelle Nelson — Fri, 30 Jul 2010 16:52:00 -0700

You can’t believe your eyes: You’re no more than four feet away from your man, chatting with other wives at the company party, when a 20-something D-cup in a revealing blouse slips her arm in your man’s and whispers in his ear. He smiles. You frown.

2 Best secret weapons against his infidelity

Noelle Nelson — Mon, 26 Jul 2010 17:28:00 -0700

Sex on the brain, can’t keep it in their pants, men are just cheatin’ fools. That’s our stereotype, isn’t it? That men are only interested in one thing, and when they’re not getting enough of it, or not getting it in the way they want, they stray. That may be true for some. But for most guys, infidelity is spurred not by a lack of sex, but by a lack of attention and appreciation.

Has Tiger Woods made women more suspicious?

Tiernan McKay — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 16:51:00 -0800

The torrid details just keep coming in the Tiger Woods infidelity scandal. With each new piece of the heartbreaking puzzle comes a collective wave of anger and frustration among women of all ages. As the drama plays out on an international stage, have Tiger's actions resulted in a heightened awareness to cheating? If so, how far is too far when monitoring your man? Read on, then take our poll on the right!