Finding Love

Attracting a love that will last forever

Nancy Pina — Thu, 26 Jul 2012 05:00:00 -0700

There are many singles that decide that traditional dating is not worth the time, hassle and effort it requires. One comment I hear often is, “I am so tired of telling my story to new people. I just want to meet someone and not have to go over the details of who I am anymore.” This feeling may resonate with you and as a relationship coach, I do acknowledge that dating is emotional and can be challenging.

Are you obsessed with finding love?

Kori Ellis — Mon, 09 Jan 2012 01:53:00 -0800

Believe it or not, being in a relationship isn't going to solve all your problems. In fact, an obsession with finding love is emotionally unhealthy. Read on to find out if you are obsessed with finding love and learn what you can do about it.

4 Signs he's definitely not a keeper

Jessica Padykula — Fri, 08 Jul 2011 09:47:00 -0700

We talk a lot about signs to watch for indicating that the one you're with could be The One. But what about the signs that point to the exact opposite – that the guy you're dating should probably never be given boyfriend status or introduced to your mom. If you're not sure what we mean and need some reminders about what signs to look for, we've put together a go-to list for how to tell he's most certainly NOT a keeper.

Are you ready to find The One? How to tell

Jessica Padykula — Mon, 30 May 2011 13:41:00 -0700

The one thing about finding Mr. Right that most people don't tell you is that you have to be ready for it. Chances are, if you haven't found what you're looking for in the commitment-worthy guy category, you may not actually be ready for long-term love. How do you know when you're ready? We have some surefire signs.

Why you're not meeting Mr. Right

Jessica Padykula — Fri, 20 May 2011 15:54:00 -0700

It's not always easy to find someone who is right for you, but your dry spell could be more than just bad luck. If you've been circling the waters for some time with nothing to show for your search, here are some reasons you might be coming up short.

What you need to give up for love

Jessica Padykula — Tue, 03 May 2011 11:23:00 -0700

If you’ve been having a hard time making love last or finding a guy with whom you want to go on more than two dates, you may have to make some sacrifices -- no, not intangible things like your apartment or your dog, but tendencies and bad habits that hold you back from finding love. Here are a few.

How to prepare for a first date

Jessica Padykula — Fri, 18 Mar 2011 14:24:00 -0700

You have a date tonight. Hurray! You’re excited but nervous. Before you let your nerves get the best of you, brush up on a few simple strategies to stay calm, cool and collected.

Are you too picky?

Jessica Padykula — Fri, 18 Mar 2011 12:13:00 -0700

Have you been on what feels like a life-long quest for Mr. Right? If you’re coming up short month after month and year after year, it could be a sign that you’re being too picky. Yes, you need to have standards, and you should never settle for someone who isn't right for you, but if your dance card has been empty for months, here are some ways to shift your thinking.

Relationship rules for Facebook

Jessica Padykula — Wed, 16 Mar 2011 12:35:00 -0700

While using Facebook to flirt and communicate with your guy can be fun, you should keep a few rules in mind when airing your entire relationship online. We’ve come up with a few pieces of advice about love, dating and social networking in the information age.

How to attract new love after divorce

Kori Ellis — Wed, 16 Mar 2011 05:39:00 -0700

After a divorce, finding someone new may seem impossible, but you can connect with someone special again. Jill Spiegel, author of How To Talk To Anyone About Anything! The Secrets to Connecting, offers these tips on how to attract new love after divorce.

How to make the first move

Jessica Padykula — Tue, 15 Mar 2011 10:54:00 -0700

Some women are great at making the first move, while others just aren't bold enough to ask a guy out or initiate a hookup. If you're thinking of starting something with the next guy you think is cute, use our tips to get what you want.

4 Signs he's a womanizer

Kori Ellis — Mon, 14 Mar 2011 06:29:00 -0700

Does he seem too good to be true? Maybe he is. Consider these signs that your new guy is a womanizer.

Double date ideas that don't suck

Jessica Padykula — Sun, 13 Mar 2011 19:30:00 -0700

Hanging out with other couples can be fun, but doing the same things over and over again can get boring. If you’re completely bored with going to the movies or to the same old restaurant, here are a few ideas to spice up your next double date.

4 Love mistakes to avoid

Jessica Padykula — Sat, 12 Mar 2011 06:45:00 -0800

Everyone has something to say about love. Whether it’s your mom, BFF or grandmother, it’s always open season when it comes to matters of the heart. But as helpful as all that advice can be, you'd best avoid these choice bits.

How to deal with dating insecurities

Jessica Padykula — Fri, 11 Mar 2011 12:30:00 -0800

Dating is fun, but it also causes of all kinds of insecurity. Is he going to call? Does he think I look fat in this? Why didn’t he kiss me good night? Those kinds of questions are enough to make your head feel like it’s going to explode. Here are a few tips for avoiding dating anxiety and staying secure in yourself as you wade through the dating pool.

Are your standards too low?

Jessica Padykula — Tue, 08 Mar 2011 09:23:00 -0800

If you’ve been dating duds month after month, your standards just might be too low. Just as being too rigid in your definition of date-able can limit your chances of finding a great guy, having low standards can you leave you saddled with a less-than-ideal creep. Here’s how to find a balance and raise your dating standards.

How to improve your dating life

Jessica Padykula — Tue, 01 Mar 2011 08:00:00 -0800

We all make mistakes, and dating mistakes are among those we regret the most. To help you avoid frustration, stress and potential embarrassment, we’ve put together a few of the biggest dating mistakes to avoid, starting today.

8 Signs you're falling for someone

Tristan Coopersmith — Mon, 07 Feb 2011 05:00:00 -0800

His name pops up on caller ID, and you get giddy. He's on his way to pick you up for a date, and you triple-check your outfit and make sure to wear something red – his fave. He knocks at your door and, instantly, the butterflies in your belly go berserk. Is it love? Or are you just a very, very smitten kitten? "They" say that when you know, you know -- but we think there are some sure-fire ways to tell when you've got it bad. Below are eight telltale signs that you are falling in L-O-V-E.

Are you in love with your workout buddy?

Kristina Marquez — Fri, 14 Jan 2011 10:55:00 -0800

Do you think you’re in love with your exercise partner but not really sure? Your body is giving you signals you’re interested … and your mind seems to agree. Could your mind be mistaken on what your body is telling it and those feelings of love aren’t really about your buddy at all? Here’s how sweating together can release endorphins and more.

How to get back in the dating game

Jessica Padykula — Mon, 03 Jan 2011 07:02:00 -0800

So you’re ready to start testing the waters of the dating pool after spending some solo time post-relationship. Welcome back! But jumping back into the dating game can be tricky if you’re not careful. To avoid getting hurt right out of the gate, follow our rules of the rebound.

Top tips for being successfully single

Jessica Padykula — Wed, 20 Oct 2010 05:00:00 -0700

Being sans beau isn't always easy. Watching paired-up pals happy in love while you're alone can get tough. Being single isn't all bad, though -- and hey, it's better than being with the wrong guy. Here's a list of great tips to help you make the most of your single life.