Dating Guides

Why you're not meeting Mr. Right

Jessica Padykula — Fri, 20 May 2011 15:54:00 -0700

It's not always easy to find someone who is right for you, but your dry spell could be more than just bad luck. If you've been circling the waters for some time with nothing to show for your search, here are some reasons you might be coming up short.

How to prepare for a first date

Jessica Padykula — Fri, 18 Mar 2011 14:24:00 -0700

You have a date tonight. Hurray! You’re excited but nervous. Before you let your nerves get the best of you, brush up on a few simple strategies to stay calm, cool and collected.

Are you too picky?

Jessica Padykula — Fri, 18 Mar 2011 12:13:00 -0700

Have you been on what feels like a life-long quest for Mr. Right? If you’re coming up short month after month and year after year, it could be a sign that you’re being too picky. Yes, you need to have standards, and you should never settle for someone who isn't right for you, but if your dance card has been empty for months, here are some ways to shift your thinking.

Relationship rules for Facebook

Jessica Padykula — Wed, 16 Mar 2011 12:35:00 -0700

While using Facebook to flirt and communicate with your guy can be fun, you should keep a few rules in mind when airing your entire relationship online. We’ve come up with a few pieces of advice about love, dating and social networking in the information age.

How to make the first move

Jessica Padykula — Tue, 15 Mar 2011 10:54:00 -0700

Some women are great at making the first move, while others just aren't bold enough to ask a guy out or initiate a hookup. If you're thinking of starting something with the next guy you think is cute, use our tips to get what you want.

4 Signs he's a womanizer

Kori Ellis — Mon, 14 Mar 2011 06:29:00 -0700

Does he seem too good to be true? Maybe he is. Consider these signs that your new guy is a womanizer.

Plan a surprise date night for your man

Jessica Padykula — Mon, 14 Mar 2011 04:55:00 -0700

If you’re looking for a way to show your guy some extra affection , why not plan the ultimate night of appreciation? Here are some great tips for on giving him a day of pampering.

Double date ideas that don't suck

Jessica Padykula — Sun, 13 Mar 2011 19:30:00 -0700

Hanging out with other couples can be fun, but doing the same things over and over again can get boring. If you’re completely bored with going to the movies or to the same old restaurant, here are a few ideas to spice up your next double date.

4 Love mistakes to avoid

Jessica Padykula — Sat, 12 Mar 2011 06:45:00 -0800

Everyone has something to say about love. Whether it’s your mom, BFF or grandmother, it’s always open season when it comes to matters of the heart. But as helpful as all that advice can be, you'd best avoid these choice bits.

How to deal with dating insecurities

Jessica Padykula — Fri, 11 Mar 2011 12:30:00 -0800

Dating is fun, but it also causes of all kinds of insecurity. Is he going to call? Does he think I look fat in this? Why didn’t he kiss me good night? Those kinds of questions are enough to make your head feel like it’s going to explode. Here are a few tips for avoiding dating anxiety and staying secure in yourself as you wade through the dating pool.

Are your standards too low?

Jessica Padykula — Tue, 08 Mar 2011 09:23:00 -0800

If you’ve been dating duds month after month, your standards just might be too low. Just as being too rigid in your definition of date-able can limit your chances of finding a great guy, having low standards can you leave you saddled with a less-than-ideal creep. Here’s how to find a balance and raise your dating standards.

New date ideas to bust dating boredom

Jessica Padykula — Fri, 04 Mar 2011 10:20:00 -0800

Sick of going to the movies? Can’t stand another dinner at your local Italian restaurant? It’s time to spice up date night. Whether you’ve been married for years or you’re in a new relationship, we’ve come up with some unique ideas for your next date.

How to improve your dating life

Jessica Padykula — Tue, 01 Mar 2011 08:00:00 -0800

We all make mistakes, and dating mistakes are among those we regret the most. To help you avoid frustration, stress and potential embarrassment, we’ve put together a few of the biggest dating mistakes to avoid, starting today.

How to end an office romance

Jessica Padykula — Thu, 24 Feb 2011 09:00:00 -0800

Ah, the office romance. It held so much promise and started off so well, but things have fizzled. Now you wish you'd never gone out with him, and you don’t want things to be awkward around the water cooler. If you’ve gone cold on a recent cubicle connection, we have some tips for ending things with grace and dignity.

Fun ways to deal with dating disasters

Jessica Padykula — Tue, 22 Feb 2011 13:24:00 -0800

We’ve all had terrible dates or great ones that go terribly wrong in the end, but there’s nothing worse than a horrible date than having to deal with the aftermath alone. So instead of commiserating in silence, here are some fun ways to blow off bad date steam.

4 Signs your ex wants you back

Jessica Padykula — Tue, 22 Feb 2011 09:31:00 -0800

He may have stated several times that he’s over you or that he’s fine with the breakup, but some telltale signs say he’s lying. Here’s how to tell if he wants to give the relationship another chance.

Dating tips for the newly single

Tonja Evetts Weimer — Mon, 21 Feb 2011 20:18:00 -0800

Did you just get out of a relationship and find yourself single again? Has the dating scene changed since you were last out there? Are you out of practice in meeting new people to date?

8 Signs you're being used for sex

Tristan Coopersmith — Thu, 10 Feb 2011 15:43:00 -0800

You guys hang out, get intimate and then...he leaves. Is his post-sex disappearing act because he's channeling Criss Angel or is he just using you for sex? Read into these 8 signs to find out if he's just in it for the sex.

8 Signs you're falling for someone

Tristan Coopersmith — Mon, 07 Feb 2011 05:00:00 -0800

His name pops up on caller ID, and you get giddy. He's on his way to pick you up for a date, and you triple-check your outfit and make sure to wear something red – his fave. He knocks at your door and, instantly, the butterflies in your belly go berserk. Is it love? Or are you just a very, very smitten kitten? "They" say that when you know, you know -- but we think there are some sure-fire ways to tell when you've got it bad. Below are eight telltale signs that you are falling in L-O-V-E.

Are you in love with your workout buddy?

Kristina Marquez — Fri, 14 Jan 2011 10:55:00 -0800

Do you think you’re in love with your exercise partner but not really sure? Your body is giving you signals you’re interested … and your mind seems to agree. Could your mind be mistaken on what your body is telling it and those feelings of love aren’t really about your buddy at all? Here’s how sweating together can release endorphins and more.

How to get back in the dating game

Jessica Padykula — Mon, 03 Jan 2011 07:02:00 -0800

So you’re ready to start testing the waters of the dating pool after spending some solo time post-relationship. Welcome back! But jumping back into the dating game can be tricky if you’re not careful. To avoid getting hurt right out of the gate, follow our rules of the rebound.