Problems For Your Pooch?

We set out to tell you why letting your dog sleep in your bed could cause behavioral issues. Then, we found out the intriguing truth.

Woman sleeping in bed with dog

Conventional wisdom tells us that letting your dog sleep in your bed with you can cause them to believe they’re the alpha, giving them the illusion they’re in control because in bed, they (large dogs at least) are taller than you.

The reality is much different. While some aggressive behaviors could be exacerbated by letting your dog sleep in your bed, the reality is, it’s really more of an opportunity for training for most dogs. Take for example one of the more common aggressive behaviors, like guarding the wife by growling when the husband enters the bed.

Pat Miller, certified professional dog trainer and the training editor for the Whole Dog Journal, says, “keep in mind that removing the dog from the bed doesn’t modify the bed-guarding behavior; it only prevents the dog from having an opportunity to practice the behavior.” While safety is always an issue, it may be a better idea to use the opportunity to modify the behavior.

In fact, there are some who argue that allowing your pet to sleep in the same room (or at least close to you) during the night is a comfort to many pets who spend six to eight hours a day at home alone. There’s no reason to make them feel as though they aren’t part of the family.

So, if sleeping with your dog doesn’t generally cause any specific aggressive behaviors, that means it’s OK, right? Yes and no. The reality is, sleeping with your dog is more likely to compromise your health than his.

The real truth about sleeping with your dog

Unfortunately, letting your dog sleep in your bed may actually be bad for you. Many dogs have sleep habits that can interrupt your sleep cycle, which can cause you to be cranky the next morning, lower your immune responses and impact your health in other ways.

Additionally, pets carry allergens. Whether or not you’re actually allergic to pet dander, you pup goes outside to go to the bathroom, get exercise and generally just have fun. And while he’s out there, he’s exposed to a number of things you could be allergic too, not the least of which is pollen, which will stick in his fur, which he subsequently brings to the bed, which could aggravate your symptoms.

Dr. Bruno Chomel, a professor at the University of California - Davis School of Veterinary Medicine, told AOL News that there’s also the risk of the transmission of life-threatening infections like plague, internal parasites and other serious diseases. “We wanted to raise the attention of people, as sleeping with a pet is becoming quite common, and there are risks associated with it, even if it is not very frequent,” he said. “But when it occurs, especially in children or immunocompromised people, it can be very severe.” 

Additionally, when spouses disagree on the topic, there could be a little marital disharmony over the subject. Trainer Pat Miller, however, suggests that those conflicts are the purview of a marriage counselor. She’s only trained to help you with your dog’s issues.

Quick tip: If your dog has been sleeping in your bed, it can be difficult to get her to accept new sleeping arrangements unless she’s suddenly developed a bit of arthritis that prevents her from moving on and off the bed comfortably. We recommend bringing in a professional trainer to help you through what is sure to be a difficult transition.

So, should you let your dog sleep with you?

Despite sleep issues and allergies, many people are going to be loathe to kick their furry friend out of bed. Most of us would rather suffer than deny the beseeching look in those big brown eyes. That being said, if you answer yes to any of the questions below, it’s time to at least consider relegating your pooch to a crate or dog bed on the floor.

  • Is my dog interrupting my sleep to the point of serious issues like lack of focus at work or frequent illness?
  • Is my partner unhappy with the arrangement?
  • Is my dog frequently exposed to situations that could cause him or her to contract dangerous illnesses that can transfer to humans?
  • Do I have allergies that the dog’s presence is likely making worse? Are allergy shots to deal with that issue an option?

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Comments on "The truth about sleeping with your dog"

Marilyn March 23, 2014 | 8:08 PM

I "allow" my Afghan Hound to sleep in my bed. He is much smaller than breed standard (luckily). I rescued him whe he was very young and very sick. He is very attached to me. I purposely purchased a very tall bed thinking no dog could jump that high - of course I didn't have an Afghan Hound at the time! The biggest problem is that he roams from one end of the bed to the other during the night. I am a light sleeper, and so I don't sleep well as a result of this. I don' t have the heart to try to keep him off the bed. I have never had a dog be so attached to me before this one. If I leave a room, my husband jokes that my dog "counts to five, and then comes to find me". He is very sweet, and he completely owns my heart. I' m sure this is not the best arrangement for my inability to get a good night's sleep!

Eileen March 18, 2014 | 2:12 PM

I was told when I adopted my 7yr. old Mini Schnauzer that she sleep in bed with her previous owner, who she had lived with until her death last year. The shelter I adopted her through, told me of this fact and I must say its the best thing ever. I love this little girl so much and having her sleep with me at night is really a gift. She certainly hasn't given me anything....but love. I'm a widow, so there is no one else to consider in this decision.

Kristine February 18, 2014 | 7:31 AM

I've had my four month old chihuahua for about a week now, he seems to be understanding to go to the bathroom outside so no problems with that, We put him in the crate during the day and at night but I am looking into to letting him sleep with us because I feel he spends too much time in the crate. Will this create a problem with his potty training? right now he whines and wakes me up at night when he has to go potty, I am worried that if he sleeps in the bed he will just wake up and go on the carpet instead of waking me to go outside. Please help!! :)

tony February 02, 2014 | 4:43 PM

There may be slight risks related to sleeping with my miniature schnauzer. However, the pure joy and comfort that I receive from his being there relieves my worries. He has been in my bed since I brought him home 31/2 years ago, and there has never been any problems with him. He is much smarter and better behaved that most children I come in contact with. He obeys my commands 100% and is my best friend. He senses what I am going to say and follows all commands. He recognizes words and phrases. Being around him is like being around a very well behaved and intelligent young person. I cherish every moment we spend together, and he shall remain in my bed as long as we both shall live.

Simon December 28, 2013 | 9:06 AM

I think this article is bollocks and the Dr's too. I sleep with my dog. I used to be allergic as ---- to him. I would sneeze all night long. After 2 weeks of forcing my exposure to him I don't even sniffle at a hair. I sleep better.. I have less stress.. and I fall asleep easier.

Inkyguy September 25, 2013 | 1:53 AM

Based on this article's information it seems one is best without any other creature in his bed, two-legged or four-legged. So whilst It may be marginally healthier, at most, without a companion in your bed but it is also lonelier. Reasonable hygiene and health care for pet and owner and this really becomes a rather trivial issue.

yayfordogs August 16, 2013 | 6:45 PM

Not kicking my dog out of bed! I work with children all day and they are just (more?) as likely to bring in pollens, disrupt my peace and bring germs into my vicinity.

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