Little girl with puppy

Happy kids, happy puppy

Many kids begin asking for their first puppy as soon as they can talk. Are you asking yourself whether you'd be crazy to add a puppy to your family? Kids and puppies can mix -- under the right circumstances. If you're ready for the commitment, keep reading to learn to how to have a happy and safe household for your children and your new pet.

"Please Mom, can we pleeeease get a puppy?" Sound familiar? If you've really thought it through and decided to add a puppy to your family, remember there's more to it than simply picking out a cute pooch to bring home.

Colleen Safford, dog trainer and owner of the Doggy Doula and NY Walk & Train, knows a thing or two about kids and puppies and how to make it work. Follow her advice for a happy, safe home for your kids and your puppy.

Puppy duty: sharing the responsibilities

While you should most certainly encourage your kids to share in the puppy responsibilities, you shouldn't count on it -- meaning that if bringing a puppy into your family is contingent on your young kids fulfilling certain puppy care duties, you might want to wait a bit longer.

"Never get a puppy with the expectation that children will regularly share in this responsibility -- but do promote and encourage it as much as possible," advises Safford.

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Rules for handling Fido

"Generally speaking, young children should not pick up young puppies at all," says Safford. "Without the developed motor skills and the lack of impulse control, children can have moments of excitement that can lead to accidents." Safford says that a single accident --  a trip, tumble or dropped puppy -- could cause your newest best friend to negatively associate your kids with holding him. Instead, put the puppy on your kids' laps for short periods of calm, safe holding.

Avoid dog bites

Fifty percent of children will experience a dog bite by age 12, shares Safford. In fact, dog bites are the fifth most common reason for ER visits. Prevent your children from become statistics with these tips.

Set boundaries. Parents rely too much on their puppy's tolerance of children's overenthusiastic (sometimes overbearing) behavior, but Safford warns that at some point, even the "best" dog will have enough. "Instead of allowing children to grab, poke and prod young puppies, set boundaries for them," Safford says. Teach them appropriate behavior. Nobody wants to be flicked in the nose or have their ears pulled all day long, and this includes your new puppy.

Learn your puppy's stress signals. "There are approximately 30 signals that tell you a dog is stressed," Safford notes. "When a dog yawns, shakes (like he just got out of water) or licks his lips, the dog is telling you he is stressed." Watch your puppy and learn his cues, and make sure your kids do the same.

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Respect the growl. "Thank your dog if he growls!" exclaims Safford. "Growling is a sign of stress and anxiety. If a dog is punished for growling, this only escalates the situation and increases the chance that a dog will bite." Remember that if your puppy growls, he's telling you he's upset. "Take this information and use it to change your dog's association with the situation or to teach your child how to better handle a dog. Never punish a growl," Safford advises.

By following these tips and using common sense, you can have welcome a new puppy to your family -- and your kids and puppy can remain best friends.

Tell us: What is your best advice for helping your kids and puppy live in harmony?

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Comments on "Kids and puppies: Rules, safety and responsibility"

Elena July 11, 2012 | 10:29 PM

Keep in mind- you get what you buy- a cheap' puppy that you buy might cost you -more- in the long run if it is poorly bred such as from a bakcyard breeder, pet store or puppy mill. You can try breed rescues such as Long Island Shetland Sheepdog Rescue or get a more expensive one from a breeder- try a show breeder and the dog will be much more healthy but will cost you more initially. Puppies go for more- you would have a better shot at getting a cheaper if you settle for an older dog that isn't a puppy- even if its between 6-12 months it will be SIGNIFICANTLY cheaper than a 2-3 month old puppy- most people tend to hold onto them before changing their mindsANY breeder that sells a cheap' puppy deserves to be suspect as you don't breed Shelties cheaply' if you are breeding them well.You can also try shelters but very likely if you want a cheap sheltie you will have to settle for a rescue Shelties aren't that common- getting a puppy is going to require a wait since there are VERY few that come through Rescue- mostly they are already 6+ months old.There are several breeders I can recommend but they breed for show-if you tell them you are looking for a cheap' sheltie you most likely aren't going to get a pup from them- there are a LOT of expenses incurred when you own a pet and the initial fees are just a comparative drop in the bucket. The breeders I know breed for healthy, quality puppies and they want to be sure you are going to be able to take care of the pet- to a good breeder looking for a cheap' puppy is an indicator that you don't really want the puppy or don't have the finances to afford one.References : Owner of show Shelties! Luv' em!

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