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These celebs shared their miscarriage pain because yes, we need to talk about it

Kim Grundy is a mom, writer, expert laundry folder and sandwich maker, not necessarily in that order. Raised in Oklahoma, she is now a West Coast gal and lives in California with her husband and two sons, along with one dog, two fish (oo...

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Brave moms

It is estimated that around 10 to 20 percent of pregnancies end in miscarriage, which is defined as the loss of a pregnancy in the first 20 weeks. More than 80 percent of these miscarriages happen before 12 weeks. Even though miscarriages are fairly common and most women will go on to get pregnant again, many women are reluctant to talk about this experience.

These celebrities have opened up about their own miscarriage heartbreak in the hope that sharing their stories will help women going through the same thing. Talking about this experience and knowing that other women have had the same emotions as you really will help you heal and gain closure. Here are their wise words. 

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Gwyneth Paltrow

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Gwyneth Paltrow

Gwyneth Paltrow opened up to the Daily Mail and revealed that she had suffered a devastating miscarriage. She and her ex-husband, Coldplay’s Chris Martin, have a son named Moses and a daughter named Apple; however, after giving birth to her two children, she got pregnant again, miscarried and "nearly died."

“My children ask me to have a baby all the time, and you never know, I could squeeze one more in. I am missing my third. I’m thinking about it,” she said, when asked if she would have any more children.

“But I had a really bad experience when I was pregnant with my third. It didn’t work out and I nearly died. So I am like, ''We good here or should we go back and try again?'" she said.

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Nicole Kidman

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Nicole Kidman

Nicole Kidman shared that she had a miscarriage when she was married to Tom Cruise. "From the minute Tom and I were married, I wanted to have babies," she told Vanity Fair. "And we lost a baby early on, so that was really very traumatic. And that's when we would adopt Bella."

Cruise and Kidman also adopted a son, Connor, before they divorced. Kidman went on to marry Keith Urban and she was able to get pregnant and give birth to a baby girl named Sunday Rose and then later had another daughter named Faith via surrogate.

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Beyoncé

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Beyoncé

Beyoncé revealed in her HBO documentary Life Is But a Dream that she had a miscarriage a few years before giving birth to Blue Ivy.

"About two years ago, I was pregnant for the first time," she said in 2013 on her show. "And I heard the heartbeat, which was the most beautiful music I ever heard in my life. I picked out names. I envisioned what my child would look like... I was feeling very maternal."

"I flew back to New York to get my check up, and no heartbeat," she shared. “'Literally the week before I went to the doctor, everything was fine, but there was no heartbeat. I went into the studio and wrote the saddest song I've ever written in my life. And it was actually the first song I wrote for my album. And it was the best form of therapy for me, because it was the saddest thing I've ever been through."

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Courteney Cox

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Courteney Cox

Friends and Cougar Town star Courteney Cox has an adorable daughter named CoCo with her ex-husband, David Arquette. However, she revealed that having a baby was not easy, as she had several miscarriages.

“I get pregnant pretty easily,” she told People magazine, “but I have a hard time keeping them.”

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Pink

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Pink

Singer Pink and her husband, Carey Hart, have a daughter named Willow. But she revealed to Ellen DeGeneres that she waited before announcing her second pregnancy because of a previous miscarriage.

"[I] was just really nervous and I have had a miscarriage before, but if I was going to talk about it with anyone, it was going to be with you," she told DeGeneres.

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Michelle Duggar

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Michelle Duggar

19 Kids and Counting matriarch Michelle Duggar was overjoyed to find out she was pregnant with her 20th child; however, she found out at her 20-week ultrasound that she had miscarried. In their book, Growing up Duggar, Jana, Jill, Jessa and Jinger shared the story of how they found out their mother had miscarried.

“Mama smiled a sweet smile and said, as tears welled up in her eyes, ‘We had the ultrasound… and there was no heartbeat,'” the sisters revealed. “‘Our baby has died.'”

“We were stunned. Speechless. The baby brother or sister we had so looked forward to holding and playing with… was gone. There was no holding back the tears as Mom shared the story of how the technician had started the ultrasound, how she had looked and looked at the screen, how she had paused and turned to them, looking so sad, and said, ‘I’m so sorry.’ The doctor had confirmed there was no heartbeat.”

Duggar gave birth to her stillborn baby girl, whom they named Jubilee Shalom Duggar.

“She had beautiful blue eyes, and a very cute little Duggar nose. She looked perfect in every way,” they said.

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Céline Dion

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Céline Dion

Céline Dion opened up about her struggles with infertility to Oprah, revealing that she didn’t share her miscarriage news initially. “They said that I was pregnant, and a couple of days after, we were not pregnant again. We didn’t want to feel like we were playing yo-yo. ‘I’m pregnant. I’m not pregnant. I’m pregnant. I’m not pregnant.’ So we didn’t want to do this thing. But we did have a miscarriage.”

Dion, who now has three children, kept an optimistic attitude. “It’s life, you know? A lot of people go through this. We tried four times to have a child. We’re still trying. We’re on the fifth try, and I’ll tell you, if five is my lucky number, this fifth try has got to come in.”

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Lindsay Lohan

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Lindsay Lohan

Lindsay Lohan surprised everyone when she revealed that she had miscarried while filming her OWN docuseries.

"No one knows this, and we can finish after this, I had a miscarriage for the two weeks that I took off," she said during her reality show finale. "It's a very long story.”

Lohan didn’t share who the father was, but did reveal how it affected her. “I couldn't move. I was sick. And mentally that messes with you.”

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Lisa Ling

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Correspondent and former co-host of The View Lisa Ling opened up about her own miscarriage, which happened when she was seven weeks pregnant.

"I made a career of telling people's stories, but it's very difficult to tell my own," she said. "But women need to know that you're not alone, that a miscarriage is not your fault."

She and her friend Sophia Kim started secretsocietyofwomen.com after this experience. "Sharing and reading what other women are going through helped me," she says.

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Brooke Shields

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Brooke Shields

Brooke Shields struggled with infertility and eventually was able to conceive a baby after IVF, but sadly miscarried the baby. “Everyone around me was getting pregnant. I was starting to feel bitter," Shields wrote in her memoir, Down Came the Rain. "Maybe I really wasn't meant to have kids… I didn't want to be happy anymore for the many other people who were having kids. I knew that their blessing had nothing to do with me, but it felt like a slap in the face."

Brooke and her husband tried several times with IVF, and were able to eventually get pregnant. The couple now has two adorable daughters, Rowan and Grier.

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Mariah Carey

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Mariah Carey

Before giving birth to her twins, Monroe and Moroccan, Mariah Carey and her then-husband Nick Cannon revealed that she had a miscarriage.

"Literally, the day we were supposed to travel to Aspen we had an ultrasound. Unfortunately that was a time where [the doctor] said, 'I'm sorry but the pregnancy is unsuccessful.'"

"It was really sad. We had really to absorb this... We really learned a lot just as people. It was even more of, like, preparing us to do this because of the way it happened so quickly at first. I think I was sort of in shock because I didn't expect [the pregnancy]... and then when that happened and I wasn't able to even talk to anybody about it, that was not OK, that was not easy."

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Kris Jenner

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Kris Jenner

Kris Jenner opened up to People that she had a miscarriage and, interestingly, it was her late friend Nicole Brown-Simpson that helped get her through it.

“Before I got pregnant with Kendall, I had a miscarriage at three months,” she said. “Nicole really got me through that. I had never run before," says Jenner. "And Nicole would encourage me. She got me running — and she told me, 'I promise you'll get pregnant [again].' "

Jenner was actually pregnant with Kendall during the OJ Simpson murder trial — and gave her the middle name of Nicole.

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Kimberly McCullough

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Kimberly McCullough

General Hospital star Kimberly McCullough, who plays Robin Scorpio on the soap, wrote in a blog post that she had a painful miscarriage

"I had just found out I was pregnant. Two weeks later I was in my office (OMG) over at Pretty Little Liars and I got a call from my doctor. The nurse came on the phone and to my surprise, told me I was having a girl. That was probably the best day of my life thus far, the one I will remember as 'having it all.' My heart was so full and then it broke," she shared, revealing she found out she had miscarried.


"I had lost my baby girl. It was too much. I didn’t need to learn this lesson. I wasn’t interested. But I wasn’t in control. These things happen and no, I don’t believe they happen 'for a reason.' I’m still processing, still healing, but anyone who has gone through it knows, losing a baby at 22 weeks is tragic."


McCullough has now learned to focus on the joy she felt. "One thing I am proud of however was that I allowed myself to be happy and to relish the moment. I sat in all that goodness and I can recall those feelings (when I’m having different ones) and hope that it can be like that again.”

 

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Shayne Lamas

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Shayne Lamas

Shayne Lamas, the daughter of Lorenzo Lamas and former Bachelor star, was rushed to the hospital when she was 16 weeks pregnant and sadly miscarried her baby. Doctors found out that she was bleeding around her uterus, and she actually had to be in the intensive care unit for several days.

"Thank you for all your thoughts and prayers," she said in a statement. "I've cried reading the expression of generosity and warmth from everyone.

“To everyone out there, please donate blood," she continued. "You can save a life like mine. In loving memory of my son, Rex Jagger Lamas-Richie."

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Bethenny Frankel

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Bethenny Frankel

Bethenny Frankel was surprised and excited to learn she was pregnant with her second child at the age of 41; but sadly she was unable to carry her baby to full term. She wrote an article for Glamour in which she described her miscarriage.

“And then it happened. The next day it was warm out, 50 degrees, but you’d have thought it was negative 10, I was shivering so much. I took Bryn to the Central Park Zoo, and I was cold and tired, and felt terrible,” she wrote. “Then, in the makeup chair for Bethenny Ever After, I started bleeding. Really bleeding. Jason picked me up, and we went to the doctor. In the exam room the doctor ran an ultrasound, looking for the heartbeat. Something was wrong. 'I’m not finding it,' he said. Jason said, 'I don’t see it.' And I’m like, 'Is this a miscarriage?' I didn’t know."

"I got dressed, we met the doctor in his office, and I launched into it," she continued. "'Is it because I’m busy? My lifestyle? Is this my fault?' I asked. 'Absolutely not, absolutely not,' he replied. 'You’re 41. You had bleeding. There’s nothing you could have done.'" 

 

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Erin Bates Paine

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Erin Bates Paine

Bringing Up Bates star Erin Bates Paine and her husband Chad are overjoyed to be expecting their first baby, but her journey to be a mother has not been an easy one as she has had several miscarriages due to a blood-clotting disorder.

"Going through a miscarriage is one of the hardest things," she told People. "You build up all these expectations, and you prepare, and you have the date in your mind, and it's just… it's heartbreaking when that ends. It's like your world's been crushed."

 

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Ali Fedotowsky

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Ali Fedotowsky

Bachelor alum Ali Fedotowsky opened up to The Doctors about how she found out early on that she had miscarried her baby. She said the pregnancy was confirmed through a blood test, but her HCG levels were so low that her doctor told her that the pregnancy would not last.

"It's hard for me to talk about because I know some people suffer miscarriages far along in their pregnancy," said Fedotowsky, who was eventually able to conceive again.

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Halsey

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Halsey

They say the show must go on, and for pop star Halsey that meant performing while struggling through pregnancy loss. The singer told Rolling Stone she went on stage wearing an adult diaper after taking two Percocet in order to work through the pain. 

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Kailyn Lowry

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After giving birth to sons Isaac and Lincoln, Teen Mom 2 star Kailyn Lowry suffered a miscarriage that played out on television. The reality star bravely allowed MTV cameras to document her discussions with husband Javi and her own struggles to come to terms with what it meant for her family's future in the aftermath of the pregnancy loss. 

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