All parents want their kids to be as healthy as they can be. By encouraging proper eating and exercise habits, supplying structure and consistency and offering a lot of love, we all can hope to raise happy and healthy children.
Keep your children happy and healthy
Mealtime shouldn't be a battle — it should be a pleasant experience for the whole family. Kids are often picky eaters — and not just toddlers. Sometimes even teenagers are picky about what they eat. And though you shouldn't force your children to eat everything on their plates, you shouldn't be a pushover and let them consume unhealthy foods either. Parents need to find a balance.
Dr. Natalie Muth — a pediatrician, registered dietitian and a leading expert in childhood obesity and healthy eating — is the author of Eat Your Vegetables and Other Mistakes Parents Make: Redefining How to Raise Healthy Eaters. She wrote this book to help empower parents through tackling everything from picky eaters to sabotaging (though well-intentioned) grandparents. The book offers plenty of honest, practical advice for parents, and also challenges many wide-held beliefs about how to raise healthy kids.
"Clean your plate!"
Don't be part of the "clean plate club." Forcing your children to finish everything on their plates every night can contribute to both childhood and adult obesity. Making your kids continue to eat after they are full can lead to poor life-long eating habits, overindulgence in food and unnecessary weight gain.
"Taking an authoritative parenting approach in which you set boundaries and guidelines for your children but they’re given the freedom to make choices within those guidelines helps you to raise the most well-adjusted and overall healthy children," Muth writes. "Put this to practice at mealtimes, when you determine what types of foods are prepared and the children decide what and how much to eat."
We all need to keep in mind that even if we have a skinny toddler now, that doesn't mean that we can allow him to develop unhealthy eating habits. Two-thirds of adults in America are overweight or obese.
Muth says in her book: "When the frustration overwhelms and the desire to just give in and forget about it increases, remember the high price of being overweight — a condition affecting more than one-third of children today. Even if your child isn’t even close to being overweight right now, he’s got a decent chance of being overweight in the future if he doesn’t adopt healthy nutrition and activity habits in childhood."
Like with eating habits, it's essential to instill healthy fitness habits in your children from a young age. Kids who are active are happier and healthier.
Get moving as a family - Kids model their parents' behavior. You can't expect them to want to get outside and get active if you just sit in front of the computer or the TV every evening. Make exercise part of your daily routine as a family. It's great for your health, and for family bonding. Take a walk together after dinner every night, go bike riding on the weekend or play a good old-fashioned game of tag.
Advocate for recess and gym - Many schools are skipping recess to shorten the school day or eliminating physical education classes due to budget costs. It's important for parents to advocate to maintain these programs in their kids' school and keep our children active.
Limit screen time - It's probably impossible to keep your children away from computers, TVs and gaming systems all the time, but you should have some limits. Too much screen time can lead to an unhealthy sedentary lifestyle. If your kids are engrossed in video games, invest in Wii games and other video games that keep them up and moving.
Physical health is just part of the equation when it comes to raising healthy kids. Emotional and mental health is vital too.
Self-esteem - Self-esteem issues in kids can lead to a number of serious concerns — from depression to alcohol and drug abuse to cutting and other self-harm. Criticism from parents and peers, a lack of confidence in skills or appearance, expectations from society and a number of other factors can damage a child's self-esteem at any age. By providing children with opportunities to succeed, offering genuine praise and communicating with them about all that is happening their lives, parents can help boost their kids' self-esteem.
Praise - Though praise is critical for our children's emotional development, you don't want to become the parent that praises or spoils your child so much that they don't learn how to handle adversity, challenges and failures on their own.
Communication - It's important for parents to keep the lines of communication open with their children, no matter their ages. From the time kids are young, each parent should try to spend some one-on-one time with each child, as well as take part in family activities as a unit that promote bonding and communication. In our fast-paced, highly-digital world, we don't want to become so consumed with other things that we forget to take time out to communicate and enjoy each other's company.
Of course diet and exercise are key to raising healthy kids. But love, care and respect go along way too in a child becoming a happy, healthy adult.
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