You may be surprised by just how interested your child is in the presidential election. Before the 2008 elections, Nemours' KidsHealth.org asked more than 2,000 kids and teens across the nation what they thought and whether or not the election would affect them.
An impressive 75 percent of kids and 79 percent of teens answered “yes” when asked if they thought the outcome of the election would change their lives. And nearly half of teens surveyed believed they’d had at least some influence on their parents’ choice of candidate.
Ask your kids for their opinions. “Their answers are often interesting,” says clinical psychologist and parenting expert Dr. John Duffy, author of The Available Parent. “Parents find that their children are more savvy and insightful than they would have thought.”
“A great way for parents to explain the presidential election is to compare it to what happens among peers who are rallying on the play yard for friends,” says child and family psychotherapist Dr. Fran Walfish, author of The Self-Aware Parent.
Compare the election to the way kids should choose friends:
Dr. Walfish likens it to a fellow student running for class officer. “A good friend should not say, ‘I’ll be your friend and let you play with us if you vote for me for student council,’” she explains. “A good friend doesn’t threaten or bargain with you.”
Look for similar parallels that may help explain the election process. “This exercise builds character, ethics and values in children and helps them choose true, genuinely good friends," says Dr. Walfish.
“I encourage parents to start by highlighting the positives regarding elections,” says Dr. Duffy:
Kids see and hear plenty of nasty political campaigning. Help your children see that slander campaigns are a lot like school bullying.
Positive ads: Dr. Duffy suggests telling your child, “I prefer ads and speeches where they talk about what they will do to fix the things that are broken and sustain the things that are not.”
Explain that a positive campaign lets us know what to expect from the candidate once he or she takes office.
Negative ads: Dr. Duffy recommends saying, “I don’t like those ads because you shouldn’t have to cut someone else down in order to build yourself up.” That's what bullies do!
“Make this a teachable moment," adds Dr. Duffy. “It’s the perfect opportunity to discuss how we treat others and want to be treated by them.“
The experts at Nemours' KidsHealth.org recommend taking your kids with you into the voting booth on Election Day, if possible, to show them firsthand how the process works. You'll set a positive example that shows how much you value the right to vote — and that every vote counts.
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