Moms Who Beat Infertility Share Their Stories

When you struggle with infertility and the months of waiting for a pregnancy turn into years, it can be difficult to imagine ever holding your baby. We spoke with more than a dozen moms who bravely battled infertility and won and we’re honored to share their powerful stories with you.

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Jessica Watson, pictured with Parker, one of her triplets

The nurse put him to my chest. There were wires and cords, I held his oxygen to his nose and cupped his diapered bottom in my hand. At barely a week old he had yet to reach 2 pounds. I was scared, of course, to have babies born at 28 weeks but above all I was in awe. There I was, holding a baby, my baby. A dream I had almost given up on.

"I dreaded every month that my period came, every test without pink lines and was so used to being poked and prodded that I couldn't remember the woman I once was who could barely stand simple blood work."

We started trying to get pregnant on our honeymoon. I started dreaming about it before our wedding even began. I had a daughter nearly ten years before so we never thought that adding to our family would be difficult. My husband and I were excited to complete our family, give my oldest a sibling and enter the years of parenting together. We spent two long years struggling to get pregnant. Taking the conservative route, then the not so conservative route then the I-will-do-anything-to-have-a-baby route I thought maybe my oldest daughter would continue her role as the only child for life. I dreaded every month that my period came, every test without pink lines and was so used to being poked and prodded that I couldn't remember the woman I once was who could barely stand simple blood work.

Finally, we decided we would try in vitro fertilization, our last chance at pregnancy. The costs were so high and the emotional toll so strong that we knew we could only try once. I found out I was pregnant with triplets in April of 2007 and the rest is history. A rich, emotional history, full of ups and downs but of the beautiful beginning of what our family is today.

Less than a year after the birth of our triplets we were shocked to find out that I was pregnant again, without a single visit to a fertility specialist. And here I am, a house full of noise, naptime and miracles, still pinching myself... just as I did that first moment the son I never thought I would have was placed in my arms.

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Tegaryusup August 09, 2012 | 10:15 AM

Hi! I stumbled arcsos your blog by complete accident, but now I am beginning to think was it? An accident? I thought I would chime in with my 2 cents (or lack there-of) on the question you've given... :)As a fellow IF'r, I don't know if I would go as far as to say its taboo, but the world needs more IF'rs like you and I--who aren't afraid to share their experiences in what can be such an isolating experience for some women. It was for me. I felt completely alone and ashamed while going through infertility procedures. So, Thank you for not being ashamed. I think people fail to embrace what they don't understand; unfortunately, this is one of those "you need to be there" to fully understand how emotional IF can be. Secondly, good luck on your IUI! I will say a prayer for it to be successful!

Akwagner36 July 14, 2012 | 9:29 AM

Thank you so very much! This is exactly how I feel. We are still waiting to get pregnant with our second child! You give me hope!

Tonya June 19, 2012 | 10:16 AM

Beautiful is the only word I have after reading these stories. Thank you for compiling this, Nichole. I am overwhelmed.

Laura June 18, 2012 | 8:35 AM

Great, inspiring stories with happy endings. Thank you so much to these moms for sharing their struggles.

Jennifer June 18, 2012 | 5:43 AM

Of all of these stories, including mine, this one made me cry. Miracles really do happen.

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