Allowing your child to wiggle while he works will allow him to be more productive and happier! While it may seem counter intuitive, wiggling may actually create a calmer atmosphere in which parents are less stressed and kids are more productive.
If your child never seems to sit still, you’ve probably exhausted yourself trying to keep up. While you watch your little one seemingly bounce and vibrate, particularly while doing her homework, take heart (and a deep breath)! You are not alone… and your child is not abnormal. "Most often, parents aren’t looking at a child’s behavior as a means of communications," says Becky Blake, a Ph.D. psychoneurology candidate and a child development expert. "Some parents take behavior personally and many feel wiggly behavior is a sign of boredom, a lack of attention or their child messing around. They are mistaken."
Sometimes parents can coexist perfectly with their wiggly child without being distracted or concerned. Other times, the constant movement can leave a parent wondering if "sitting still" is just a figure of speech. So, why do kids wiggle? According to Blake, there are three main reasons for wiggly behavior:
"Sit still!" It may be tempting to utter those two little words when the wiggling just doesn’t end, but doing so may be an exercise in futility. "The child will try to comply and may stop, but that cessation is of short duration," says Dr. Jennifer Little, an educational psychologist. "Something has to give, and something will move!" The truth is, you may be able to complete busy work like paying bills and writing thank you cards without wiggling, but your child is a unique being with her own quirks, needs and tendencies. As parents, it’s our job to create an environment in which our kids can thrive, especially while doing activities such as homework.
Dr. Little offers the following tips for parents helping their wiggly child complete a task that requires focus and concentration (like homework):
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