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Kids Need to Know Memorial Day Is More Than a 3-Day Weekend

When she's not writing, Claire Gillespie can most often be found wiping snotty noses, picking up Lego, taking photos of her cat or doing headstands.

Memorial Day weekend is always fun, but there's a very serious meaning behind the celebration

Children love Memorial Day weekend for its barbecues, lawn activities and beach trips, but maybe you think it’s time to teach your kids that the occasion is more than a three-day weekend of family fun. It might seem all fun and games (and who doesn't love a day off school and work?) but it's actually the most solemn holiday on the U.S. calendar. For over 150 years Memorial Day has been dedicated to paying respect to all the men and women who died during service to the U.S. military.

Memorial Day actually began as Decoration Day back in 1868, when the graves of Civil War soldiers were decorated with flags and flowers. It was renamed Memorial Day in 1967 and in 1968 the last Monday in May was officially declared a U.S. holiday, turning the day into a celebratory three-day weekend before summer begins.

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If you have a relative who died during military service, that's the perfect place to start teaching your kids what Memorial Day weekend is really about. Put the barbecue on hold, visit their grave, and talk about their place in the family, where they fought and how they died. If you don't have a deceased friend or relative who was in the military, help decorate the graves of soldiers at your local cemetery with flags and wreaths.

Most U.S. cities host commemorative exhibitions, events and concerts at museums and concert venues. Check your local listings for details and try to slot a couple of special events into your weekend.

If you fancy taking your Memorial Day tribute on the road, consider some of these famous Memorial Day destination spots:

  • Pearl Harbor, the World War II naval base on the island of Oahu, Hawaii
  • Gettysburg National Military Park in Gettysburg, Pennsylvania, the scene of the Civil War's bloodiest battle
  • National World War II Museum in New Orleans, which tells the story of the American experience in "the war that changed the world"
  • The Liberty Bell, a famous symbol of American independence, in Independence National Historical Park in Pennsylvania
  • National Mall in Washington, D.C., home to the Lincoln Memorial, the Washington Monument, the Constitution Gardens and the U.S. Capitol Building
  • Arlington National Cemetery in Arlington, Virginia, which served as a Union Army burial site during the Civil War

If your town doesn't host a Memorial Day parade, you won't have to travel far to find one that does. On the surface it's about costumes, music and fun, but by explaining to your kids what the parade represents you can combine activity with appreciation.

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A meaningful Memorial Day doesn't have to involve battling the crowds. You can engage your kids at home with fun activities and use this opportunity to chat about Memorial Day and what it stands for. Make popsicle flags or decorate a cake in red, white and blue (strawberries, whipped cream and blueberries.) 

Many families find it difficult to associate Memorial Day with fun activities. They may have relatives marching in parades who could soon be deployed in well-publicized war zones in Irag, Syria or Afghanistan, or other dangerous places that don’t often make the headlines, like Niger and Somalia.

President Trump recently approved a $700 billion defense budget for 2019 — what his administration has called the largest military budget in U.S. history — to strengthen the U.S. position against nuclear-armed adversaries like China and Russia.

If you, like so many Americans, question Trump’s motives and think some of those billions of taxpayers’ dollar could be put to better use (such as by ensuring all U.S. citizens get education and healthcare, and all addicts get treatment, and the infant mortality rates were addressed), you might struggle to find anything to celebrate on Memorial Day at all. But if you think your kids are mature enough, you can use the current political climate as a jumping-off point for conversation and debate.

More: Hate Today's Politics? How to Teach Kids About Tolerance

But remember, Memorial Day isn't about what's going on right now or what might happen in the future. It's about the 1.1 million American men and women who have been killed in all U.S. wars. However you spend the holiday (and there's nothing wrong with enjoying three days to relax at home with your family, because those moments are precious), take some time to think about those who sacrificed their lives.

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