If it's your child's first slumber party, you don't need invite a dozen friends. Keep the party to a reasonable number. Start with three invitees. If you are brave, you can work yourself up to 10 when your daughter is a tween or teen.
Do yourself a favor, and scout out the participants wisely. You can get some idea of how a child will behave at a sleepover by watching them on a playdate or other group activity. Don't invite children who you don't know... and it's a good idea to be acquainted with their parents, too. When the kids get dropped off, be sure to get contact info from each parent and ask about possible food allergies or health concerns.
When you have other kids in your house for the night, they are your responsiblity. You don't need to be a party pooper, but you do need to lay down the ground rules with your child and their guests. Make sure they understand they cannot leave the house without your permission. You might also consider designating certain areas of the house as "off limits" -- like the rooms with white carpets or valuable breakable items.
You don't want to hover over the party the entire time, but you do need to keep an eye on things. Walk through the room often, bringing in more food, beverages, games and movies. Make sure everyone is present and accounted for, and there isn't any arguing or out-of-control mischief going on.
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