Boobs in bikinis are ok, as long as you don't breastfeed

Feb 28, 2012 8:30 AM by Monica Beyer

Posted in Parenting / Age by Age / Baby & Toddler

Nursing mom harassed at Ohio water park

Maggie Bowen was visiting an Ohio indoor water park when she was approached by management and told to stop breastfeeding her 6-month-old son. Was the park in the right, or did they violate the law? Read on and find out the rest of the story.

Retiring to the back of the Fort Rapids Indoor Waterpark Resort in Columbus, Ohio, Maggie Bowen sat down to breastfeed her 6-month-old son. She was soon admonished by a park employee and told to cease nursing right away, as it wasn't allowed in the water park. Problem is, Maggie and every other breastfeeding mom in Ohio are specifically protected from harassment like this, as mothers are allowed to breastfeed in any public location they have the legal right to be.

"This has never happened to me before"

We got a chance to speak with Maggie about her experience. "I do choose to use a cover and be discreet when I breastfeed to avoid this exact situation," she told us. "I was absolutely stunned." Maggie wasn't even talked to while she was feeding her son -- the manager didn't approach her until her baby's dinner was done. "I didn't want to cause a scene in front of my 7-year-old step son because I felt going public with this story was a better example than getting into an argument with someone who was clearly breaking the law," she went on to explain.

"My kids don't need to see that."

Some people agree completely with the water park's actions. Adam, posting on the Fort Rapids' Facebook page, shared, "Glad I wasn't there! I wouldn't want my kids to see the woman's breast out for all to see. Why not just pump some out before you go and have enough to be prepared?"

Jamie from Ohio agreed. "It's gross!" he exclaimed. "Period! Peeing is a natural act but you can't go around peeing in public! If I was with my little boys and they saw a woman doing that, I would cause a bigger scene than her."

Bikinis show more boob than nursing

Other people felt that the water park was participating in extreme hypocrisy. "Less breast is showing during breastfeeding than in 90% of bathing suits seen at these places, regardless of what other covering the mother is using," said Amanda from Ohio. "The breast is covered by the baby's head, and in order to see anything 'inappropriate' one would have to be standing directly behind the mother, staring blatantly over her shoulder."

Too little, too late

Fort Rapids has issued several apologies, such as the following: "To our guests, and patrons: Once again, we would like to apologize to Maggie Bowen. We truly regret that she felt singled out. Fort Rapids will continue to abide by Ohio law in all matters regarding this issue."

Many moms, however, feel that it isn't good enough. A user on their Facebook page, Amy, asked. "What specifically will you do to make sure this doesn't happen again?" Amanda, another Facebook user, agreed. "This is a total non-apology," she explained. "I'm very saddened by Fort Rapids' response here. This mother deserves an honest apology, a refund of her entrance fee and a promise to train staff on how to respect breastfeeding mothers so that this does not happen to anyone else."

Vyky, mom of two, may have summed it up best. "It is my children's fundamental right to be fed when they are hungry," she said. "If that makes you uncomfortable, then feel free to avert your eyes."

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Comments

Comments on "Boobs in bikinis are ok, as long as you don't breastfeed"

It is sad that in this day and age people still have such huge issues with this. As was stated, most bikini's show far more breast (and other body parts!) then is shown when breast feeding. On top of that, most women when breast feeding try to be discreet, whereas a lot of people flaunt their bodies in skimpy swimwear. More importantly, what people feel about breast feeding is irrelevant in this case. She had a legal right to breast feed in public, and used her legal right to do so. The park is out of line. You know what else I find funny? That the same men that were commenting on how it's "gross" are not running around covering up the women who were there in bikini's but in fact were probably checking them out. So it just sounds like it's okay if you're flaunting your breasts for ual purposes, but it's not okay to use them for what they're intended.

It is normal, and natural. If you have an issue with it, walk away! How come it is not a problem for young girls, and women to walk around with their boobs and half their butt's hanging out which I find very disrespectful, or men wearing swim trunks showing their jewels? Women breastfeeding their babies should be commended for choosing a healthier way to feed them, not condemed. How do you think babies ate before the bottle was invented?

To those who equate eating with urinating -- one is meant to be consumed and one is waste. Can't you tell which is which? Or do you also eat when you're on the toilet? As for pumping -- babies who are breastfed don't always adapt to a huge plastic fake nipple. My daughter refused to eat from a bottle. Anyway, the bottle is just a plastic elgonated breast with a mutant plastic nipple on top. Far more offensive looking than an actual breast. (Do people not get that a bottle stands in for OMG a BREAST?) Finally, no one has to look. If we told the women at the water park to cover up, you can be sure we'd get flack. Men want to see breasts only as ual toys which belong to them, and they don't seem to be able to accept that a breast is biologically made for feeding babies. (Men can also breastfeed as they have mammary glands -- a fact which almost all men don't seem to know. They can also get breast cancer.)

im a guy i have i dont have a problem with it.... most of the women i have seen breastfeeding in public cover themselves up anyway... and let me tell you something if anyone ever told my fiancee that she had to go somewhere else to breastfeed like a bathroom. i would get in there face and ask them why my daughter would have to eat in a bathroom. Do you go to eat in your bathroom... yeah that what i thought