Share this Story

Start a sibling reading challenge

Jen Klein is a New England-based technical writer and mother of three. When she isn't asking her kids to stop bickering, "caramelizing" the dinner or actively ignoring the dust bunnies under the couch, she enjoys knitting, gardening, pho...

Competitive literacy

Do you have a couple of children that are particularly competitive in nature? Everything, but EVERYTHING is a competition. It’s exhausting! But how about channeling that competitive instinct in your children into a reading challenge? Tap into their nature and see who can read the most. Ready….set….read!

Competitive literacy

A sibling reading challenge is a great way to constructively channel the competitive nature of siblings. You could start it annually in the weeks leading up to the start of school as a sneaky way to gear your kids up for the academic year -- or anytime you want to redirect competitive energy. If your kids really get into it, don't be surprised if they continue it on their own well into adulthood. Really! (Heck, start one with your own siblings at the same time!)

1Establish the ground rules

First of all, establish the ground rules. What is the duration of the challenge? A week? A month? Summer vacation? Spring break? What will it mean to "win?" Total number of books read? Or pages of books? And will varying reading levels play into it? If you have one very fluent reader and one just starting out easy chapter books, you might want to count two pages for one child to one page for the other, or some other variation.

And if one or more of your kids has a tendency to, you know, stretch the number of pages read beyond reality, you might need to strategize how to verify the pages and books are actually read. You can probably do this easily by scanning the last couple of pages supposedly read and asking a few questions.

2Get to the library

You're likely going to be going through a lot of books. Make sure your library cards are up-to-date, any previous fines paid up, and schedule library visits to support all this reading. Talk to the children's librarian about suggested books for each of your children's ages, look for book series, favorite authors and the like. There are so many great books out there. Extending the challenge is always an option!

3Set up some rewards

While for one child, "beating" their sibling may well be enough, the whole family really wins in this kind of a competition. When the reading challenge is over, give your kids a reward for a competition well-played -- and may be essential if one of your kids is a little reticent. It could be an outing to a favorite attraction, or a trip to the penny candy store, or even better, a trip to the bookstore to pick out a great book to continue the reading.

A sibling reading challenge doesn't just channel competitive energy. It advances your children's reading skills and generally supports literacy. Who knows? Your reticent reader might find the series he or she just loves, and you may see increased calm and support among your kids with comments like, "You've gotta read this book! It's great!"

More on reading

5 Book series to read with your kids
15 Top books for preschoolers, kids and teens
7 Books to read aloud to your tween or teen

Competitive literacyAge 14Age 15Age 16Age 17Age 18Age 13Age 12Age 11Age 10Age 9Age 8Age 7Age 6Age 5Age 4Age 3Age 2Age 1babypregnancy

New in Parenting

And you'll see personalized content just for you whenever you click the My Feed .

SheKnows is making some changes!

b h e a r d !

Welcome to the new SheKnows Community,

where you can share your stories, ideas

and CONNECT with millions of women.

Get Started