Summer is a much-needed break from the hustle-and-bustle of the hectic school year. When you think about it, you hardly see your kids at all – and when you do, everyone is in a hurry and stressed. Slow down, and get to know your daughter this summer.
Do you overindulge your daughter? Have you created a sense of entitlement in her? Do many of your disagreements involve money or spending? Believe it or not, this is one of the easiest areas of your relationship to fix.
Sign yourselves up for some volunteer work. Volunteering will forever change the way you and your daughter look at money. The opportunities are endless:
There may be plenty of drama between you and your teen, but adding a bit more might actually be good for your relationship.
Audition together for a summer play with your community theatre group. Or make your own production. "My daughter and I are connecting this summer by working on a parody of Breaking Dawn," says Dr Natalie Wilson, professor of women's studies at Cal State.
You can let your guard down when you're pretending to be someone else, and that might just open up the doors of communication between you and your daughter.
Turn off your cell phone and disconnect your daughter's iPod. Take advantage of every opportunity you can to talk. We're not talking about heavy stuff here… just casual conversation in the car, over lunch, whenever. You may find that your daughter is not the moody, spoiled girl you thought she was, and she may learn a thing or two about her stick-in-the-mud mom.
The topics are meant to spark laughs, memories, wisdom and hopefully a few surprises. Your daughter will discover that, believe it or not, you were once a teen, too.
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