The teen prom dream of becoming prom queen or king is packed with competition, so be sure your youngster will be able to deal if he or she doesn't win before green lighting participation in the prom court race. "Equip your child with coping skills to deal with disappointments," advises Dr. Fran Walfish, child and family psychotherapist, author of The Self-Aware Parent. "We cannot protect or prevent life's disappointments. The best we can do is equip children with inevitable life letdowns."
Peer envy is inevitable when contending for the crown, even amongst friends of your teen's social circle. Help her prepare for potential bouts of jealousy from classmates and support her when faced with the green-eyed monster.
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Although your teen's prom is a milestone in high school, running for prom court should be a reward, not a privilege. Use your adolescent's grades as a guide in your decision.
Creating, promoting and following through with a prom campaign involves a lot of hard work and cash. Require your future prom queen or king to uncover all the requirements involved before giving your permission for him or her to run for court. Then agree on the amount of financial backing you'll give to your teen, from campaign to prom apparel.
Use your parental insight when talking to your teen about his or her ultimate reason for wanting to run for prom court. Unhealthy reasons, like a desire to feel more popular or to one-up another classmate running for prom king or queen are unhealthy and should be addressed.
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So, should your teen run for prom court? Remember that helping your teen run for prom queen or king will not only offer a great way for you two to bond, it can be fun to relive your own teen prom experience, so long as you don't try to steel the royal spotlight!
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