If your child is acting out of sorts during the holidays -- aside from the expected anticipatory acting out and bursting-out-of-their-skin energy -- you might want to consider whether your child is depressed. Yes, really. Rather than dismissing it, address it. You may be able to get in the Christmas spirit and make it a happier holiday for all of you.
While many of the symptoms of depression in kids may mirror that of adults, it can be easier to dismiss certain symptoms as "not enough sleep" or "excitement" or other things. However, persistence and pattern in symptoms likely warrants a deeper look.
Like adults, depression can be triggered by any of a number of things, including recent loss, difficult memories, changing hormones or even light (seasonal affective disorder can start in adolescence).
If your child is showing a pattern of behavior that causes concern, address it. Start by finding a quiet time to ask your child about how they are feeling about the holidays. For some kids, just acknowledging that they are feeling pressure during this intense season is a start to healing and feeling better.
If there is an obvious trigger, like a change in living situation, whether by move or divorce, or it's the first holiday without a beloved family member (even a pet), you can reassure your child in an appropriate way and start to look for ways to assuage the sadness. For example, you could make sure you do something special to remember that lost family member -- or even if you can't have the exact snowy Christmas you had in the old house, states away, perhaps you can put on all your old hats and mittens and pretend for a morning? Small steps can make a big difference when addressing seasonal depression.
If simple steps don't show some improvement, seek professional help for your child's symptoms. Your child's pediatrician should be able to refer you to a mental health provider that specializes in kids' issues.
Just as in adults, sweeping issues under the rug does nothing to resolve them. If your child is showing symptoms of depression during the holidays, address it -- and your whole family may have a happier holiday as a result.
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