10 At-home dates after the kids go to bed

Say "ahhh"

Bubble bath, massage oils, candles and champagne are a few essentials for this spa-inspired date night. Start off taking turns giving each other sexy rubdowns, and then wash off those essential oils with a bath a deux, complete with bubble bath and bubbly!

Sexy fashion show

OK, it might take a little convincing to get your man to strut his stuff, so volunteer to go first. Dig out some sexy lingerie and your highest stilettos, dim the lights and parade your sexy self around the living room (just make sure all the toys are picked up so you don't trip!). Encourage him to pick his favorites, then let him help you undress…

Happy hour

Crack open a cold one and toast to some alone time. If it's vino you prefer, select a few new bottles and have your own at-home wine tasting, complete with crackers, cheese, fruit and chocolate.

Movie night

Rent a comedy, put on your sweats, cuddle up together under a warm blanket and share a bowl of popcorn. If you're feeling really amorous, pick up an adult movie and ditch the sweats and popcorn. 'Nuff said.

Decadent dessert

Who needs a fondue pot? Prepare a plate of fruit such as strawberries and banana slices, along with brownie and pound cake bites. Melt some chocolate in a double boiler (or simply microwave some for a few seconds at a time just until it melts). Feed each other the sinful snacks and lick the chocolate off wherever it drips (wink, wink).

Game time

You know you've got a whole slew of board games stacked in the closet. Turn up the heat on game night by playing a sexy game of Truth or Dare, Jenga, a round of strip Memory or naked Twister.

Dance party

Clear some space in your living room, turn down the lights, light some candles, turn on some music and just move to the beat. It may seem silly at first, but loosen up (or have a cocktail or two first). It will be worth it once you rediscover your rhythm with your man.

Randy reads

Light a fire and cuddle up with a good book. A good naughty book. Written erotica can be even sexier than its visual counterpart. Dare to act out a scene that really lights your fire.

Cook as a couple

C'mon, you deserve better than your kids' cold chicken nuggets. Instead of dining when your kids do, save your appetite and whip up a fancy meal with your man when the kids are dozing. Working together in the kitchen will reignite your status as a "team."

Dream date

Just checking in with your man seems like a simple thing, but it's something that becomes a luxury in the day to day. Talk about what's going on in his world beyond just "the office." Discuss some goals for your future, talk about your dream vacation or ask each other what you would do if you won the lottery tonight.