5 Ways to stress less about housework

1. Designate a room for socializing that is off limits for kids

According to Cristin Frank, co-owner of Frankhaus, LLC, Cargot Roll & Go organizers (CarryCargot.com): While your family room may be filled with beans sprouting in a Styrofoam cup, Legos and cracker crumbs, you can designate one room that is dusted and vacuumed once a week that features pictures in frames and end tables with coasters. There is no need to obsess over the whole house; one white-glove showroom is all that's needed.

2. Just get rid of it

Ms. Frank says moms should liberate themselves from extra housework by eliminating extraneous and under-utilized toys and gear that can be put to better use by being donated to Goodwill. There comes a time when a home, no matter the size, cannot accommodate 100 stuffed animals; infant gear becomes obsolete and clothing, ice skates and Halloween costumes no longer fit. It's not a matter of cleaning; it's a matter of ridding.

3. Have something in it for you

While taking on a task like washing dishes moms can use the opportunity to soak their hands in warm water, gaze out the window and listen to their latest downloaded pod casts. When housework is done a little at a time, and reconfigured to make it a bit of an indulgence, there's a transformation from "work" to "maintenance" says Ms. Frank.

4. Eliminate unnecessary work by laying down firm rules with your kids

"I asked myself early on, do I spend my life scrubbing ketchup, milk and peanut butter out of my carpets and couches, or do I insist my kids eat in the kitchen," says Ms. Frank. When put like that, it's an easy decision. So after machine-washing the spots, and consequently the Scotch Guard, from my couch cushions, I had no choice but to blockade any and all food from leaving the kitchen. In the long run, discipline goes farther than elbow grease. And moms should take additional comfort in knowing that dirt being sucked into a vacuum cleaner is easily one of the most satisfying sounds.

5. Have a cleaning quickie

According to Cara Mirabella, owner of TheHouseholdHelper.com, moms should set their timer for 15 minutes once or twice a day and tidy-up. They can use that time to straighten out the magazines on the coffee table, put away some toys, grab their broom and do a quick sweep. Using a timer lets you know that there is an end in sight and often motivates you to move quickly.