My work with kids in the last decade has shown me a snapshot of the life of many of today's kids: Being involved in a number of different activities outside of school, a huge increase in the intensity of many of these activities, having many hours of homework each night, and getting far less sleep than they should for someone their age.
While having a busier life with more responsibility isn't always harmful for kids, what is harmful is the lack of "down time" that kids have. Kids need to recharge their batteries just as adults do. In fact, they need to do it more. And when stress builds up in kids and they aren't allowed to "do nothing" with enough regularity, problems start to occur.
Effective parents take a long look at their kids' lives and see what the big picture is. Kids may often take on too much in their lives if you let them. It may be because their friends are doing it, or because they enjoy a number of different activities in their life. But it may not be serving them well, and this is where parents need to step in and limit the busyness in their kids' life. In cases where a child absolutely thrives on a busy schedule and is happy and healthy, this needs to be recognized as well. More often the child wants to do more than is healthy for them.
How does a parent help their children have some "down time" in an incredibly busy world? Here are some ideas:
Providing "down time" is one of the best things parents can do for their kids. Teach your kids that most of their best ideas will come to them during "down time." Teach them that being busy all the time takes a big toll on your enjoyment and your health. And know that you'll be more successful at providing it if you educate them about it early in their lives.
Do your kids a favor by "living" down time and teaching it. Remember that there are times when it helps all of us to "just sit there."
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