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Suns, houses and scary people: What kids' drawings really mean

Lisa Fogarty

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Lisa Fogarty

Lisa Fogarty has written numerous articles for USA Today, The Stir, Opposing Views and other publications. She has covered everything from red carpet events to the discovery of toxic PCBs on school windows. She lives on Long Island, N.Y....

The secret meanings behind kids' most common drawings... revealed

There are so many times in a child's life when he or she seems unwilling or unable to express to us what they're feeling inside. It can be frustrating for a parent who is doing everything possible to understand a child's emotional state — providing all the right conversation starters, backing off just enough to not come across as a helicopter parent — only to keep confronting the same unscalable brick wall. But if your kids love to draw (and what kid doesn't?), there could be a way in. 

Many mental health workers who work with children use their artwork as a way of better understanding their young patients and unearthing some of those feelings that they can't begin to make sense of at their age.

In doing so, they've found that even the most creative kids tend to focus on drawing the same objects or use similar colors when they're experiencing emotions they can't vocalize. But before we get carried away and overanalyze every line, circle and dot our kids put to paper, Dr. Christopher Hastings, a psychologist who has been conducting psychological evaluations with children and adolescents for over 10 years and often uses projective drawings to aid in interpretation, cautions parents not to separate their child's artwork from their child and who she or he is as an individual.

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"When interpreting drawings from children it is very important to get some context from the child," Hastings says, "While some children may have a fear against certain monsters, such as vampires, some may not. Children who recently watched a kids' movie with a vampire as the main character may relate to them in a positive way, but if they recently viewed a horror movie with the vampire as the bad guy, then the drawing would mean something completely different."

If you're struggling to understand your child, these five common kids' drawings may explain a great deal about their fears, hopes and personality.

Monsters/vampires

“Generally speaking, vampires and monsters represent a powerful being,” Hastings says. “If the character is the center of the drawing it could mean the child wishes to be seen as powerful, but could also represent some significant anxiety issues. Another item to consider is what the child was instructed to draw. If the child was told to draw a person and they drew a monster, this could be a negative self-view. If the child is merely drawing for their own recreation, it could be seen as a desire to be more powerful/intimidating.”

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Houses

Keeping in mind that Hastings says there are a lot of theories about what children mean to express when they draw houses and other inanimate objects like rainbows and suns, there's no doubt the figure of a house is one of the first we sketch — here's what it could mean.

“Generally, I feel when a child draws a house they are drawing a representation of how they see their home life,” Hastings says. “Houses can be items of stability and structure, but with children who come from negative family experiences, the house can represent a prison. As children develop, they will add more details to a house and eventually draw a three-dimensional house, rather than a two-dimensional drawing. A child of 6 will likely draw the typical square house with a triangle roof, whereas a teenager is likely to draw a more specific style of house and probably make it three-dimensional, showing the side of the house as well. Teenagers who draw a two-dimensional house may be emotionally stunted and could have experienced some type of trauma, preventing them from psychologically developing further.” 

If you’re looking carefully at your child’s house illustration, the number (or absence of) windows could provide greater insight. “An inordinate amount of windows may represent an openness to communicate with people, but could also be the child wishing others could ‘see’ what was going on in the house," Hastings says. "Children who are open to others and have healthy social interactions will likely draw a typical walkway to the front door, whereas children who are closed off may not even draw such a path to their door. The more normal details to the house typically mean a more positive view of their household and family.” 

The sun

Drawing a smiley yellow sun could mean a happy, satisfied state of being, but not all suns are created equally. "Typically, children like to explain their drawings, so a person can gain incredible insight just by asking children what each item means," Hastings says. "Overall, though, a picture of a full sun are signs the child is happy and has a positive view of the world. A partial sun, drawn in the upper corner of a drawing, could indicate signs of anxiety regarding authority figures. A sun barely peeking through a cloudy sky could indicate signs of depression and maybe even feelings of hopelessness in their situation."

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Rainbows

Good news: Hastings says colorful rainbows are generally positive messages and are included in children with positive viewpoints.

Disturbing pictures of family members

Few children's drawings warm the heart like that of a row of smiling family members holding hands. But when an image of a dad or mom engulfed in flames or depicted drowning in a swimming pool pops up on the kitchen table, there's no denying it can be highly disturbing.

“Drawings depicting a specific scene with family members (such as drowning) can be very disturbing and need to be inquired about,” Hastings says. “A child may draw a family member on fire or drowning if they recently saw a TV show or movie depicting this. This could indicate the child has a level of anxiety about losing the family member in a tragic manner. This will likely be accompanied with nightmares and some separation anxiety from the given family member. There are cases, however, where the child has negative feelings toward the family member and drawings of a tragic event are symbolic of wish fulfillment on the child's behalf. Again, this is where asking the children about the drawing can help with insight.”

Overuse of one color

You may wonder, after seeing your 5-year-old's all-black painting, whether it's possible she has discovered The Cure 10 years too early. The prevailing use, or overuse, of one specific color can tell us a great deal about our kids' prevailing mood. "Blue would suggest depression, red — anger, but this may not always be the case," Hastings says. "Some children have a preference for a specific color and may use it to replace other naturally-occurring colors. Concern should arise if you see monochromatic drawings, especially if in shades of grey. This could indicate color-blindness, neurological concerns, or other psychological issues."

Before you go, check out our slideshow below:

The secret meanings behind kids' most common drawings... revealed
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