Sexy nurse, sexy cop, even sexy Olaf! It's bad enough that party stores separate kids' costumes into dated, strict gender roles — policemen for boys, princesses for girls. But, when you get a costume catalog, go to the store or do a Google search, you're bombarded with the sexed-up versions of getups designed only for women.
At some point, your kids will start to notice that most of the options for women are ridiculously revealing. More than simply explaining that these disguises are for grown-ups, you can take the opportunity to help kids understand the sexy-costume phenomenon, how it sells women short and how they can reject it and replace it with positive role models who communicate strength, intelligence — or anything else they want to be for Halloween or in life.
You're not the only parent who's fed up. Write the company selling this merchandise (like this mom did) and give them a piece of your mind. If your kids are old enough, encourage them to write letters.
From Mayim Bialik to Mother Teresa, there are plenty of female role models for kids to dress up as. In fact, Halloween is a great time to really get into character. Look for inspiration from pop culture, history, books and video games — the sky's the limit.
Just as many Hollywood movies reinforce dated stereotypes, mainstream Halloween costumes stubbornly refuse to see women for anything other than their potential for sexiness. Tell your kids that these ideas are limiting and insulting — and that your family doesn't agree with them.
Sex between consenting adults is OK. And it's natural for teens and even tweens to want to experiment with sexuality on a night when anything goes. Make sure older kids understand that you're complaining about costumes that reduce women to the sum of their parts, not judging people for wanting to wear those costumes. And if your teen wants to be a little daring on Halloween, that's a different conversation.
The Halloween selling season is short, about three months. In that time, costume companies need to make as much money as possible. The outrageousness of sexy Halloween costumes helps move merchandise quickly, since many folks choose to go all out on this night of all disguises.
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