Of course, that's precisely the reason it is so very important to establish good boundaries for screen time. Not only will having those boundaries in place help your child flourish, but it will also make them less susceptible to screen time temptations when they are outside the protective fold of home.
Easier said than done, right? Although putting those boundaries in place can seem like a daunting task when you're faced with a toddler mid-tantrum (we've all been there!), here are a few tips to help make the process less stressful.
This may seem like a no-brainer, but you'd be surprised how often it is overlooked. With younger children, it's important for the child to know exactly where you stand. For older children, you certainly don't want to give them ammunition for the classic "I didn't know that's what you were talking about" excuse. So for starters, pinpoint what you want in terms of screen time so you can then explain it in palpable terms to your kids.
If you're having trouble making a general time frame stick — such as no more than two hours of TV per day — try breaking up screen time and incorporating it into your daily agenda. So for example, you might allow your kids to tune in for half an hour after breakfast and lunch and an hour after dinner in the early evening. When kids get used to the schedule, they'll start to accept the TV time parameters as just another part of your household routine and, therefore, a fact of life.
Yes, this one is tough. Any parent who has experienced the wrath of a 2-year-old in the middle of an interrupted Bubble Guppies marathon understands just how vexing enforcing screen time boundaries can be (am I right?). But kids have to learn to understand there are consequences to crossing boundaries — that TV time is a privilege, and that privilege is earned. If your kid is supposed to do their homework before afternoon cartoons and they don't, well, hold them accountable. A tantrum may ensue, but ultimately your child will learn to respect you (and by proxy, other authority figures) as well as the rules you put in place to protect them.
Setting a boundary and enforcing it should never turn into going on the offensive in the face of an impending argument. Mom blogging guru Meghan Leahy sums this up in an on-point analogy: "A good fence that separates the child from a dangerous cliff does not come out and attack the child when the child runs into it. It just stands there. Being a fence. Holding strong. You need to be the fence. Hold strong, and resist the urge to attack."
It's easy to pass the buck and point to other families or experts who make passing suggestions about how much screen time your child should have. But the strongest example your child will ever have is you. If they see you absorbed in the digital realm — watching TV, face in your phone, surfing the Internet, trolling Facebook — it will make it that much more tempting for them to follow suit. Be mindful of how much screen time you partake in around your children, and it'll make setting boundaries worlds easier in the long run.
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