The whole endeavor is full of surprises that don't end with infancy. Motherhood might even be the vocation that most closely resembles a surprise party — only the surprises are profound and occasionally panic-inducing.
In honor of Mother's Day, we caught up with everyday moms to find out what surprised them most about their steps and stumbles into parenting.
"How deeply, purely and unconditionally I could love." — Barbara F.
"How instinctively I would attune to their every cry, need and concern. We are joined by blood, basic needs, a look in the eyes and nonverbal cues. This continues even with older kids." — Patty K.
"It's the hardest job that I've ever loved." — Tonya E.
"That love multiplies and doesn't divide." — Kim P.
"I am surprised by how many people my sweet little girl affects. She is just one little girl, but she matters to so many people." — Amy M.
"I am pleasantly surprised that I enjoy my teenagers as much as I enjoyed them in their toddler years. I'm proud to be developing actual friendships with them. I love them and I like them." — Melissa H.
"The feeling that she was too perfect to have come from me." — Annah R.
"The thing that most surprised me is that they come out with their own personalities and keep their personalities for life." — Jenni A.
"That I can live on extremely little sleep!" — Megan L.
"Vulvar varicosities took me by complete surprise — didn't even know there was such a thing." — Elizabeth G.
"How little I would care about waking up in the middle of the night or changing poopy diapers. It really is different when it's your kid." — Bonnie S.
"The community aspect of my life became even more obvious. People really want to help and spend time with you and your little one." — Kristen B.
"It not only changed my life as a person, but also my job. I am a different kind of teacher now that I'm a mom." — Rian B.
"As my children have grown older, I've been amazed at the things I remember like it were yesterday — the joys and how proud I felt, the sorrows and the pain I felt. The kids don't remember like Mom does." — Lora K.
In my own path as a mother, I've been most surprised by the mixture of strength and softness required every day and every hour — and that the strength and softness bleed into every facet of life. What surprised you the most about your journey into motherhood?
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