As Money Saving Mom says, "Mothering in any sense requires serious time management, but when the number of children [increases] and their father leaves, it becomes an essential life skill."
We know single moms are superheroes already, but we've got a few tips to help you save time and get through every day with ease.
Whether it's bath time or playtime, find a way to double up on the activity you are doing, for example:
Team up with other single moms, and make arrangements to swap duties or to partner with them:
If you co-parent, maximize the way you spend your alone time. Draw up a schedule like you would any other day, and pencil in time for chores, socializing and relaxing (yes, you need downtime too). This will give you a little structure to your time without the kids, rather than winging it and not achieving as much as you hoped.
If you can afford to pay for help, the extra time you save could be worth its weight in gold. If you have a sitter or a nanny, consider asking them if they would also be willing to do some light chores around the house. In many cases they will already pick up after your children and might even do small tasks, like unload the dishwasher or take out the trash. But if you need more help, negotiate a system that will work for both of you. If your children are older, be sure they are helping with tasks around the house that are appropriate for their ages. Hiring a housekeeper, a laundry service or even a dog walker could help make your life a little bit easier.
Try to wake up just 20 minutes before your kids do, and use this time to do any or all of the following:
When it really does get too much, reach out to a support group, where you can meet like-minded single moms. MOMS Canada and Mom and Mentors allow single moms to meet and learn from one another's experiences as well as offer a sympathetic ear.
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